inside with condom

[lemx]

how long can you stay inside vagina after ejaculation with condom?
i am worried about those seconds after the real ejaculation when the penis is half erected..
is the condom unsafe at the base ofthe penis?

thank you

[Vance2335]

well when you lose the erection the condom can slip off and your fluids can come out. there is no time frame just how the body reacts after ejaculation.

[Jeyk]

Hi Vance ..

I have the same doubt .. There might be times where we might not be erect .. so is there a chance that fluids could pass through the opening of the base of the penis?

Has this happened?

Thank you.

[Vance2335]

I am sure it has happened, that is why you are to remove the condom after you ejaculate and not stay inside of the woman.
Just make sure you use a condom at all times just just pull out after ejaculation

[Jeyk]

ok .. but what if there is a situation where you are half erect .. before ejaculation ..

Is that a risky situation because of the gaps ..

[Vance2335]

What if you were not erect at all? You can't play the "what if" game. Because if you do you can find a way to have a risk no matter what. "What if" the condom broke, "what if" the woman had cut me with a razor blade and then spit blood onto my penis?

It just goes on and on. Not trying to be a jerk about it but just trying to make a point.

Just use a condom correctly and you really have no worries.

[Jeyk]

I'm sorry for being a bit annoying .. But the main question is .. Why do all these people posting here (including me) have all these symptoms (which are not supposed to be there at all) after using a condom correctly ...

[auntiejessi]

None of the symptoms you've listed in your previous threads, with the exception of burning with urination, are related to an std.  It might be anxiety, something related to hypertension, or something more serious.  The burning you had resolved when you were treated for a UTI.

You had protected sex.  You are not at risk for most stds, including HIV, and you've had no symptoms of the others.  

Please read the thread called "Please read before posting" at the top of the topics page.  We ask that you keep all your questions to one thread, as it makes it so much easier for us to have your history in one place.

I don't know what else we can say to you to make you believe you don't have an std.  We have explained everything, and given you suggestions, and you are stuck on an std.  I don't know why others have similar symptoms, but you won't like my theory on it - anxiety.  We see a lot of people who have done something they regret, or who have only bits and pieces of std info (not your fault - blame the schools, the government which decides what you can be taught about sex in schools, your parents, etc), and with only bits of the info, the imagination can run wild.

AJ

[auntiejessi]

Oh and my apologies to Lemx, the original poster of this.  We have clearly hijacked your thread.  Should you have more questions, Lemx, feel free to start a new thread.

Aj