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Not sure what I have

A couple of weeks ago i did the biggest mistake of my life which is probably ending my marriage cuz I had to confess to my wife.  I received unprotected oral at a massage place.  It was very brief and it barely lasted with no ejaculation.  First week, there was a bit of discomfort but nothing worth worrying about.  I slept with my wife 6 days after the exposure which was a tiny bit painful but cuz me and my wife thought her period was over but when we had sex it was uncomfortable for the both of us and a tiny bit of blood came out of her after intercourse.  a couple of days after that, i felt irritation in the uretha.. 13 days after exposure in the morning i felt like i had frequent urination( 4 times within 3 hours) but again it could possibly be that i drank alotta water the night before(didnt wake up to go to the washroom) and had coffee.  It still freaked me out and went to a walkin clinic(Im in canada and its hard to see a specialist right away).  Anyways, the doctor gave me 2 pills of Suprax and 8 pills of Azithromycin and did a urine test.  Result should be in in a week.  Same day and even before i took the pills, i didnt have the need to urinate frequently.  Its been 5 days since I took the meds, and i still feel irritation in the uretha(specially if im sitting down for long and when i think about it and stress about it).  I didnt have any discharge i keep checking but this morning when i woke up i checked my black underwear and noticed a small spot thats orangeish.  I keept trying to squeeze my penis for anything to come out but nothing did.  My wife feels like shes having symptoms now.. she feels that she has vaginal discharge, lower ab pain.  She went to the doctor yesterday and they gave her the same medication and took urine and blood samples. Again results should be out in a week.

I havent eaten anything.. Im living off water and cigarettes for the last three days. I dunno what to do and Im just worried sick that we have something extremely dangerous and uncurable and waiting for results is just making things worse.

1. What can this be?  
2. Whats considered a late treatment? or after how long is it considered late for treatment? I dont wanna cause my wife to be infertile. I dont care about myself and what happens to me but i care about her.
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You get it all of the time.
I have given my opinion that I don't think this is a STD. You are going to have to wait for tests to come back.
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I know I should be waiting for the results and cant help but wonder.  its also so hard to try and list all your symptoms. I've also forgot to mention that when I touch my penis, eventhough its not hard, it feels aroused.. just a tingly feeling.. not sure if im even saying that right or if im using the right explanation.  Was hoping to get someone with the same symptoms to say what they went through(was it anything? was it cured? not cured? So many unanswered questions)
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Last time I am going to say this, I really don't think this has anything to do with a STD and is more likely to be anxiety/guilt.
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I really dont think so and the information given here might be inaccurate.  I've been looking around this forum for a couple of days now and people are suffering with similar symptoms and everyone keeps telling them its nothing and 6 months or a yr later they discover that they have something.  We cant be all hallucinating and thinking of symptoms.  Yes our minds can play games on us but cmon to some limit.  I truly believe that there are things that are unanswered with science until now.  If I get my results back and everything is negative and im still feeling how im feeling, then its the only conclusion to make!
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I didnt mean to be disrespectful and harsh.  and I hope to god that what you're saying is actually whats happening.  But Ive read in this forum, that after a while people will start developing herpes like symptoms or NGU symptoms.. months down the road and thats what im affraid of and whats what im talkin about here
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I mean after testing negative for everything a bunch of times and different time frames.
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