Nuru and STI

[Crawler00]

Hello everyone! After 8 years of piece of mind i did the stupid thing again and need your (mostilely mental) support .
Two days ago i visited massage parlour for nuru massage. Both naked, no oral/vaginal or any other intercourse. Just lots of oil, sliding and two handjobs.
Anyway it happend few times that the masseuse sat on my belly and imitated the cowgirl position while holding my penis with the hand. In this situation she surely rubbed her genitals agaist lowe part of belly (with lots of oil, so it was rather sliding thand grinding). Possibly also rubbed it on my leg and my back as was giving my nec massage. For the piece of mind i need some assesment of risks i had and weather i need to test myself again after years of living in piece.
My concern is syphilis and possibly other STI that trasmits trough skin-skin contact.
The whole thing was two days ago so its surely to early to test myself for anything, also no sympthoms so far.
Thanks in advance!

[auntiejessi]

When we say "skin to skin" contact, we mean oral to genital, genital to genital, or genital to anal contact. It's not arm to stomach, or genital to stomach contact, or anything like that.

The skin on other parts of your body is too thick for germs to penetrate. You can't get an STI from contact with your stomach, arm, back, etc.

You had no risk here. You do not need to test. Whatever "what ifs" pop into your head, nothing with change this. Her genitals can't have come into contact with yours if she was holding your penis in her hand. There is no risk from handjobs.

[Crawler00]

Thanks a lot for your answer. Anyway i feel little burning sensation on the head of my pienis. I took a closer look today (4 days after encouter) and there is reddish spot close to the urethral opening.  What that could be? Should I wait and observe or put some medicine on it? can anything develop in such a short period of time?

Btw. Today i just read the medhelp is closing. This is really sad, for some people you are great help and support in difficult times...Place like no other in the internet i guess....

[Crawler00]

Or im just paranoid and im finding things that arent there...stupid me

[auntiejessi]

Don't put any medicine on it - you don't know what it is, if anything. Give it the weekend, and if it's still there, see your doctor on Monday.

STOP looking at your penis and inspecting it and checking it several times a day. Let it just be. You don't have to look inside it, either. You had no risk here for anything, but if you have have a risky event, you can look at it once a day. That's all you need to do. You will notice if you get STD symptoms.

Any further inspection and you will just irritate the hell out of it, and then you'll think you have something. You don't ever need to milk it or squeeze it to see if you have discharge. If you get discharge, it will be there without you doing anything. Looking inside does nothing.

I'm sorry we're closing, too. Really, really sorry. It's sad. Gaz and I are looking for other sites. If we find something, I'll post it in the pinned post at the top of this forum.

[Crawler00]

Just before the site will close, i have one more question. I can make the real time PCR test for  Ch. Trachomatis, N.gonorrhoeae, M. genitalium, M. hominis, U. urealyticum, U.parvum, Trichomonas vaginalis. After what period of time such test is accurate? I know its maybe not needed, but i believe this will help me control my Anxiety.
I still feel some thingling, feels like i need to pee. The red spots dissapeared, this morning i found some red , flat, shiny (comparing to the rest part) spot on the head.

[auntiejessi]

Generally speaking, you can test for those at two weeks. Some will be found earlier, but some you should wait two weeks for, so 2 weeks is good.

In this instance, you had no risk at all, and don't need to test for them.

If you are having symptoms, see a doctor. Maybe some oil got in your urethra and is causing an infection. Maybe it's anxiety. It's not an STD, though.