Lap dance that ended happily

[scorched1]

I was at a strip club one week ago and this stripper took me into VIP where she was totally nude. She started giving the lap dance and facing me and inserted her finger in her vagina.Soon after between she pulled my shorts and started stroking me. after a few seconds, i told er to stop but she rubbed her Vagina against my Penis before i could tell her to stop. in a matter of probably a minute, she has touched my penis with her hand and her vagina and i definitely had contact with her Vagina.

Will STDs get transmitted because of her inserting her fingers in her vagina and then stroking me and also rubbing her Vagina against my penis. i got out of the place and washed my penis in the restroom with soap and water in a local gas station but i am scare if i could have contracted any infection. though i have not had any symptom, i am scared and i want to know when i can get tested.

Thanks for you help

[Vance2335]

no

[scorched1]

Thanks very much for he reply. It is very comforting. Can i get a fungal infection from the experience i had above. Does the fungal infection cause groin pain and body aches

[gracefromHHP]

herpes wouldn't cause discharge in a male nor would it cause an odor.

sounds like a fungal infection more than a std.

[scorched1]

Hello Grace and Tony

I have an appointment with my General practitioner on Monday but i also wanted to let you know that i have been having a white discharge and my penis smells really bad and i have a mild pain in my groin area. is it indicative of a bacterial infection or is it still HSV 2

[scorched1]

I did go to the doctor on Friday and he ordered a blood test. he did a visual inspection and could not determine the presence of herpes but he also indicated that it might be too early to determine anything as the symptoms might show up a little later than the 2 weeks or it is too early to get the result. I am stressed like crazy now and i have been away from my baby for the past three days which is killing me

[Popyui]

Did you went to the doc's already?

[gracefromHHP]

std's are transmitted through naked and intimate contact- it's not something you would give to your baby from holding it.

see your provider for your symptoms.  

[scorched1]

now the question is that if i am having a primary outbreak, how do i manage with the kid at home. The kid is 5 months old and i just cant stop myself from holding him and kissing him or cuddling with him. how long should i abstain from being near him. I am freaking scared and don't know what to do. I told my wife about it and she is in disbelief. She think i slept with the stripper or got a blowjob.

[scorched1]

I have small blisters on my foreskin, when i pull my foreskin back i see a bunch of red blisters in a group. i am a statistic now and i feel ruined

[scorched1]

Thanks for the reply Grace. I know i am being very anxious and paranoid and the smallest of itch is making me cringe with fear. I will wait another week to see if i have symptoms and even if there are none, i will go and get it checked

You think the risk of exposure was very low and i should not be concerned. I am more scared of the HSV 2 than the bacterial infections that have a cure

[gracefromHHP]

your anxiety if the real issue dear, not your risk.

if you are concerned, see your provider for a proper exam.

[scorched1]

Grace and Tony

Today i started to have an itch around my anus. I cannot see any blisters but there is a slight burning and an itch. Is there a possibility that the HSV 2 could have spread to the anal area. I have not see any blisters around the penis yet thought

Thanks for reading and appreciate a reply

[Tony19821]

You couldn't catch gonorrhea from your exposure and without any really symptoms ie painful blisters or open sores within the next couple of weeks it's very safe to say you haven't caught anything and can resume normal sexual activity with your wife and wouldn't recommend any testing at all.

[scorched1]

Hello Tony or anybody else that can help me here

I am married and we have a kid. how do i tell my wife that we cannot have a sexual activity for the next 3 months before i get tested as i fear i might have contracted herpes or gonorrhea. i have researched the web and most of the sites give only an approximate time frame to get tested. will it help to get tested in a week or 10 days from now and get it tested again after 3 months

Please advice

[scorched1]

Thanks a lot for the reply. Sorry for the grammatical errors in the first post as i was typing from a phone. I will watch for Symptoms and probably get tested to have peace of mind. hopefully the stripper did not carry any disease.

Thanks again

[Tony19821]

The exposure you describe is very low risk. You can rule out chlamydia and gonorrhea as they wouldn't be passed like this. The only slight possibility is herpes type 2, genital warts or syphilis but there's are almost impossible to contract within the timescale of the event you mentioned. I wouldn't recommend any testing but if you want to for peace of mind you'd need to wait about three months before testing for any of the STDs that were even a possibility. I really wouldn't worry though.

[scorched1]

Forgot to include that i had to stop her during the second dance when she was doing this as i was excited and ejaculated in my underpants