Firstly thanks for the service, I acknowledge the need for a in person consultation and I will do that but unfortunately I am currently on holiday. And won’t be able to get free healthcare for a while, also been on holiday with my wife going to get healthcare abroad for this issue will surely cause suspicion.
So I’ll do my best to explain my predicament and hopefully you can do your best to help. But don’t feel responsible if you can’t.
So about a week ago, just before going on holiday I had a msm exposure the exposure was mutual masterbation we stroked each other’s penis. I think we swapped hands and I may have touched my self with the hand I touched him I’m not sure. I purposely kept my penis away from his as I have deep anxieties about STI been married I need to keep her safe.
He touched me with his hand briefly again not sure if he used this on himself or not but probably he did. He only really stroked the end and not for long. It was mainly me pleasuring the both of us.
So about 5 after exposure I noticed a spot on my penis base. Just maybe a CM up from the pubic area. It’s not really painful but tender in touch. I squeezed it thinking it was a spot and it did release some pus. It then got red and scabbed over today this morning in the shower cleaning the scab came off and it’s now a pink shallow mark. Still not painful. I am trying to keep my hands off this to avoid confusing matters.
I’m normally laid back but seen as this should be a relaxing holiday and every time I see this mark it’s a reminder and a worry.
Googling STI the closest this I can find that looks anything like is a syphilis sore. But as far as I can read onset at 5 days after doesn't happen? Is this true?
So I guess my questions.
1) what’s my risks
2) is this syphilis or does 5 day onset rule this out conclusively. I guess I’m asking has it ever been heard of that someone gets a sore before the quotes 10 days.
3) do I need to find medical care.
4) also does the sore show up at points of contact or just the near the point of contact. I’m not sure the part that spot is is a point of contact I’m not saying it’s not for definite but I like to masterbate at the end I don’t usually touch the whole penis. Would you imagine if I was going to get a sore it would most likely be on the end of my penis where it’s touched the most?