Receiving unprotected oral sex and kissing

[sinisteradam]

Hello,

I am a male. Yesterday I have received unprotected oral sex as well as some kissing from someone I don't know at all (stupid me I know). Then some anal with condom was involved. After I am done, my brain started to get oxygen and I realized that what I have done was very risky. When I asked her that does she have any STD, she said "absolutely no". I couldn't see anything on her lips and genital organ, but I still can't feel comfortable. I have a long standing relationship with my girlfriend (stupid me again for cheating her), and I don't want to cause any risk on her. I am planning to say I have blocked out because of alcohol and drugs, and I don't remember a night. I might even got raped by men. So I don't want to risk her. In that case until I know if there is anything on me;

1- Can I kiss her?
2- Can I have sex with her unprotected?
3- Can I have sex with her with condom?
4- Is 90 days necessary to see if I have some STD or not? For example, if I go to doctor after 10 days, can't he diagnose anything?

Thanks

[Karasx92]

Uhhh bro, get tested first before you do anything.

[sinisteradam]

thanks but I don't know how to keep her away from myself for 3 months without no reason

[Vance2335]

At this point no reason to tell her anything. Don't lie, but also don't say anything.

[sinisteradam]

thanks for the answer... Losing her, making her sad is worse than killing myself... I can't tell how sorry I feel, how angry to myself and how much I want to hurt myself. And I also know that she'll never forgive me if I tell the truth...

[Vance2335]

A lie is not going to get you anywhere, espically trying to blame a man for raping you. That is a horrible lie.

1. Yes
2. Yes but you did have a low risk encounter for some STD's
3. Sure
4. Gonorrhea and chlamydia-1 week, syphilis-6 weeks, herpes-3 months