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the most stupid mistake. Std?
While on a bachelor party to England, and to my eternal regret, I was convinced by a friend to go to a brothel. (Please don't judge me.) Both of us are in long term relationships and were very drunk at the time. It is an act which I will never and could never engage in again (I can't speak for my friend).
It is without doubt the most stupid thing I have ever done. I am in a loving long term relationship with the only girl I have ever had sexual intercourse with.This girl is my world. We always engage in protected sex. I am very worried that i may have contracted an STD an even more worried that i might pass something on to my girlfriend. She is the innocent party in all of this. Any advice you may have would be greatly appreciated.
I apologize for the detailed description but it may help with any advice you may have.
My trip to the brothel was rushed and short lived. The girl firstly told me to lie on a bed. But firstly she covered it with what appeared to be a fresh towel (it may not have been). She then rubbed my genital and anal area with a wet wipe of some sort (not sure if it was a disinfectant?). Subsequently she started to rub my flaccid penis with her bare hand and then applied a condom (which seemed thicker than usual?). She then proceeded to give me oral sex over the condom, however, due to nerves, guilt and alcohol, my penis was failing to become erect. As a last resort the sex worker got on top of me and entered my penis into her vagina (for approx 15 seconds max). Still to no avail, I suggested it may be the condom so I asked for another fresh one and tried to get myself erect myself. This did not work so I apologized to the girl and left the place in a rush, ashamed of what could have happened, consumed with regret and horror. I rushed back to the hotel and washed my hands face and genital area with soap. (not sure if this would help..I just had to try something). This event was a couple of days ago and since then I have been applying antiseptic cream regularly to my genital area (also not sure if this helps..but again trying something).
I know i will never ever do anything like this again but I am consumed by the fear that I may have contracted and STD.
How long should i wait before getting tested? What should I get tested for? What symptoms should i be looking out for? How long do these symptoms take to develop? What is the likelihood of passing something on to by girlfriend having protected sex? Does the fact that the girl gave me oral sex increase the risk through saliva in her mouth?
It is without doubt the most stupid thing I have ever done. I am in a loving long term relationship with the only girl I have ever had sexual intercourse with.This girl is my world. We always engage in protected sex. I am very worried that i may have contracted an STD an even more worried that i might pass something on to my girlfriend. She is the innocent party in all of this. Any advice you may have would be greatly appreciated.
I apologize for the detailed description but it may help with any advice you may have.
My trip to the brothel was rushed and short lived. The girl firstly told me to lie on a bed. But firstly she covered it with what appeared to be a fresh towel (it may not have been). She then rubbed my genital and anal area with a wet wipe of some sort (not sure if it was a disinfectant?). Subsequently she started to rub my flaccid penis with her bare hand and then applied a condom (which seemed thicker than usual?). She then proceeded to give me oral sex over the condom, however, due to nerves, guilt and alcohol, my penis was failing to become erect. As a last resort the sex worker got on top of me and entered my penis into her vagina (for approx 15 seconds max). Still to no avail, I suggested it may be the condom so I asked for another fresh one and tried to get myself erect myself. This did not work so I apologized to the girl and left the place in a rush, ashamed of what could have happened, consumed with regret and horror. I rushed back to the hotel and washed my hands face and genital area with soap. (not sure if this would help..I just had to try something). This event was a couple of days ago and since then I have been applying antiseptic cream regularly to my genital area (also not sure if this helps..but again trying something).
I know i will never ever do anything like this again but I am consumed by the fear that I may have contracted and STD.
How long should i wait before getting tested? What should I get tested for? What symptoms should i be looking out for? How long do these symptoms take to develop? What is the likelihood of passing something on to by girlfriend having protected sex? Does the fact that the girl gave me oral sex increase the risk through saliva in her mouth?
Thanks very much for taking the time to answer my query. Are you absolutely certain? Am i wasting my time taking an std test?
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