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Risk from asian massage parlor with happy ending and anus rubbing
I was stressed out so went to a massage place close to my house who offered traditional Thai massage. Massage was going well then she sat on my hand where my hand was touching her crotch (she was clothed). Then she started to rub my anus with her finger. To make a long story short I didn't say no and after 10-15 minutes of lightly rubbing my anus she turned me over and finished with a HJ. I was caught off guard but enjoyed the excitement and stress relief and didn't say no. I take full responsibility.
It has been 7 days and I have been having soreness and irritation right inside my anus for about 3 days. My anus feels "raw" to describe it best. I used a mirror and I don't see anything on the out side but when I spread my anus open a little I see a few purple bumps and redness that almost looks like pictures I see on the net of hemroids. I see no ulcers or blisters. No burning when I urinate but it feels a little more sensitive on the tip of my penis after urination is complete and more sensitive feeling with tip of penis against clothing. The anus irritation is really uncomfortable and is feeling more and more "raw". At this point all I have tried is a little coconut oil on my anus to reduce the irritation.
My wife was diagnosed with Lupus a year ago and has not felt well for the whole past year so our sex life is non-existant. I do not need to worry about spreading anything at the moment, but I feel absolutely sick about not saying stop and allowing the anus rub without insertion and the so called happy ending.
I was stressed before this and now I am a nervous wreck. My wife has enough going on and here I go doing this stupid thing that puts us at risk.
I know hand to genital transmission is very low but my symptoms on my anus are not imaginary. I can't even sit very long without discomfort. I need direction.
-chances of std from stated activities
-does symptoms sound like hsv or other sti?
-what should my next step be?
-when is the earliest I can get tested and trust results?
Any help would be greatly appreciated. Stress, anxiety, and guilt are killing me.
It has been 7 days and I have been having soreness and irritation right inside my anus for about 3 days. My anus feels "raw" to describe it best. I used a mirror and I don't see anything on the out side but when I spread my anus open a little I see a few purple bumps and redness that almost looks like pictures I see on the net of hemroids. I see no ulcers or blisters. No burning when I urinate but it feels a little more sensitive on the tip of my penis after urination is complete and more sensitive feeling with tip of penis against clothing. The anus irritation is really uncomfortable and is feeling more and more "raw". At this point all I have tried is a little coconut oil on my anus to reduce the irritation.
My wife was diagnosed with Lupus a year ago and has not felt well for the whole past year so our sex life is non-existant. I do not need to worry about spreading anything at the moment, but I feel absolutely sick about not saying stop and allowing the anus rub without insertion and the so called happy ending.
I was stressed before this and now I am a nervous wreck. My wife has enough going on and here I go doing this stupid thing that puts us at risk.
I know hand to genital transmission is very low but my symptoms on my anus are not imaginary. I can't even sit very long without discomfort. I need direction.
-chances of std from stated activities
-does symptoms sound like hsv or other sti?
-what should my next step be?
-when is the earliest I can get tested and trust results?
Any help would be greatly appreciated. Stress, anxiety, and guilt are killing me.
I had exactly the same problem, and later found out it was HPV. Will never go back to a massage parlor again.
Dave789789....how do you feel now after so long? Hope the STI tests were negative and you are all good? What caused that anal discomfort?
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Hi you had zero risk to contract any std from what you describe.
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Dave789789....how do you feel now after so long? Hope the STI tests were negative and you are all good? What caused that anal discomfort?
This is HPV, anal warts. Some kind of STDs transmitted via skin contact. Only binosy test can show if you are possitive or not. It's not in the blood,and it won't show up in your STD blood test.
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