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Risk of naked grinding exposure
Massage led to massage lady taking off clothes. Grinding ontop of me. Mixture of fast, slow, light, heavy.
My boxer shorts remained on the duration.
This lasted 3-5mins. Penis erect facing back on itself- head toward my chin and under fabric of boxer shorts.
I looked down and noticed that the head of my penis was poking up out of boxer shorts slightly by maybe no more than 1-max 2cm. This was again facing up to me so it would have been the underside. This could have exposed head and urethral during grinding session. Vaginal fluids probably present due to grinding.
Most of grinding probably ontop of boxers but chance vagina came into contact with head too. I don't know.
Questions
1. Does this present a risk of hiv infection?
2. Does this present a risk of hepatitis infection?
3. Are HSV and syphilis a concern and what is likelihood of infection from this event?
4. I do not think penetration could have happened but could deep grinding into labiya accidently cause penetration? (Based on the fact only a small part of penis exposed out of boxers(not entire head) and facing back onitself toward me?
5. Are any other stds a concern?
My boxer shorts remained on the duration.
This lasted 3-5mins. Penis erect facing back on itself- head toward my chin and under fabric of boxer shorts.
I looked down and noticed that the head of my penis was poking up out of boxer shorts slightly by maybe no more than 1-max 2cm. This was again facing up to me so it would have been the underside. This could have exposed head and urethral during grinding session. Vaginal fluids probably present due to grinding.
Most of grinding probably ontop of boxers but chance vagina came into contact with head too. I don't know.
Questions
1. Does this present a risk of hiv infection?
2. Does this present a risk of hepatitis infection?
3. Are HSV and syphilis a concern and what is likelihood of infection from this event?
4. I do not think penetration could have happened but could deep grinding into labiya accidently cause penetration? (Based on the fact only a small part of penis exposed out of boxers(not entire head) and facing back onitself toward me?
5. Are any other stds a concern?
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I'm sure you would have felt her on the head of your penis had it actually been exposed. For that reason, we are going to assume it wasn't actually exposed.
That means the answer to all your questions is no, you had no risk for anything. No STD, including HIV, goes through clothing.
HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, mycoplasma, trich, and the hep viruses require penetration to transmit. You didn't have that, so even if it was sticking out, you have no risk.
Herpes, HPV and syphilis require only skin to skin contact, but also require friction, usually the kind associated with intercourse. It doesn't sound like that happened, so even if there was direct contact with her vagina, you're fine.
Wouldn't worry about a thing.
That means the answer to all your questions is no, you had no risk for anything. No STD, including HIV, goes through clothing.
HIV, chlamydia, gonorrhea, mycoplasma, trich, and the hep viruses require penetration to transmit. You didn't have that, so even if it was sticking out, you have no risk.
Herpes, HPV and syphilis require only skin to skin contact, but also require friction, usually the kind associated with intercourse. It doesn't sound like that happened, so even if there was direct contact with her vagina, you're fine.
Wouldn't worry about a thing.
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Thank you for the reply.
I was fueld with alcohol and drunk, and with only a small part of head showing its possible she did grind onto it.
Please can you answer hypothetically -that she did grind on the small part of head exposed in manner I described
I was fueld with alcohol and drunk, and with only a small part of head showing its possible she did grind onto it.
Please can you answer hypothetically -that she did grind on the small part of head exposed in manner I described
And sorry to make this clear.
Grinding involved vagina rubbed over genital area as she sat ontop
Grinding involved vagina rubbed over genital area as she sat ontop
You already got the answer: you have no risk since the contact you described is not a penetration. Position or area of your exposed penis don't matter much: penetration is never a matter of accident.
There is absolutely no risk for HIV and only theoretical risk for herpes, HPV and syphilis. But that risk is so low that you don't even have to test.
There is absolutely no risk for HIV and only theoretical risk for herpes, HPV and syphilis. But that risk is so low that you don't even have to test.
I was clear on the positioning of her being on top - it changes nothing.
I agree with grobick - position changes nothing. The area of your penis that was exposed changes nothing here.
You don't need to test.
I agree with grobick - position changes nothing. The area of your penis that was exposed changes nothing here.
You don't need to test.
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