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Risks of involving in threesome
Iam 30 m and my wife 29f have been in a marital relationship from past 5 years and we have been discussing having s threesome from past few months my wife is into girls and she suggest we have a ffm threesome and the understanding is no prnetration eith the third person me and my wife will only have insertive sex we have decided that kissing and rubbing is ok with third person but no insertive sex, we have a particular fetish so we have decided to hire an escort or a csw in bangkok for this, as we will be kissing and rubbing her a lot will there be any hiv or std risk?
Sorry but i hope people are not judgemental here and they have helped me in past so i thought of posting it here
Sorry but i hope people are not judgemental here and they have helped me in past so i thought of posting it here
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It depends on what you mean by rubbing.
Rubbing of the breasts and body is no risk. Heavy rubbing of the genitals - her genitals with the woman's, or your penis against the woman's genitals - while unclothed can transmit herpes, syphilis, and HPV. Usually it requires the kind of heavy rubbing associated with intercourse, but not always.
Oral sex can transmit gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, genital herpes type 1, and HPV.
This is lower risk than actual penetration, but is still a risk. If you all have herpes type 1, for example, there is no concern, unless someone has an oral outbreak and gives someone else oral sex. That could make it more likely that they'd get genital herpes type 1.
Have you given any thought to testing prior to having the threesome? If this is going to be more of a spontaneous thing, that limits the options for testing, but if this is going to be planned, testing on everyone's part would be a good idea.
It's definitely possible to have a threesome, just with a little planning. :)
Rubbing of the breasts and body is no risk. Heavy rubbing of the genitals - her genitals with the woman's, or your penis against the woman's genitals - while unclothed can transmit herpes, syphilis, and HPV. Usually it requires the kind of heavy rubbing associated with intercourse, but not always.
Oral sex can transmit gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, genital herpes type 1, and HPV.
This is lower risk than actual penetration, but is still a risk. If you all have herpes type 1, for example, there is no concern, unless someone has an oral outbreak and gives someone else oral sex. That could make it more likely that they'd get genital herpes type 1.
Have you given any thought to testing prior to having the threesome? If this is going to be more of a spontaneous thing, that limits the options for testing, but if this is going to be planned, testing on everyone's part would be a good idea.
It's definitely possible to have a threesome, just with a little planning. :)
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We have tested ourselves and we are free of alll stds its just the escort iam concerned about and also its tgat we are planning in bangkok so I don't know how the policies there are
Well, if you are using a sex worker, you'll have to limit the activities you do, if you want to 100% ensure you don't get anything. This can be done, you just have to have some firm boundaries on it. :)
There will be no penetration with the escort, just that my wife will kiss her and may be fondle her breasts no oral will be performed and no penetrative sex at all with her
I answer these questions as a volunteer on my own time. Also, I've already explained what would be risky, and kissing and fondling breasts were not listed as risks.
If you are not doing oral sex, vaginal or anal sex, and you and your wife's genitals aren't in any contact with the escort's genitals, there is no risk.
If you are not doing oral sex, vaginal or anal sex, and you and your wife's genitals aren't in any contact with the escort's genitals, there is no risk.
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