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What are my potential risks for STD/STIs?
The evening of 2/12 I received a massage from a backpage escort. The woman used an unknown oil for the massage. She then proceeded to give me a handjob. Next she took a toy, wrapped a condom around it, and then applied an unknown lubricant to my anal opening. After a few minutes she ran out of lube, took her hand to her mouth, spit on it and then proceeded to lubricate my anal opening again. Shortly after I ejaculated while she was giving me a handjob and was given a towel to clean myself up with.
From the research I have done on this forum and others it appears that this contact is no risk? I engaged in a handjob and anal with a toy/condom because I believed it was safe. My main concern was the saliva to my anus and possibly with the handjob too. But like I said is it true that STDs require penetration or direct contact with the infected area? And saliva or hand contact is not a way to transmit any diseases?
When I went home, I washed my anal opening and penis several times over the next 24hrs with soap and water. 48hrs later on 2/14 and continued to this point my urethra started to have a weird sensation. Was this from an irritation by the washing or could it be something more serious? I am peeing fine, no burning.
My perineum area also hurts with the pain slightly traveling to my testicles. I am a heterosexual male and this was the first time I was penetrated anally. She was very aggressive/rough and two times during the penetration I had a sharp pain. Is the pain I'm feeling something that is normal and I am probably just bruised and will heal in a few day, or is it something more serious? This was also the first time I ejaculated in a month and it was the most I have ever released, could this extra intense orgasm be part of the soreness. I definitely wasn't relaxed during the anal penetration.
I tried to research as much as I could but I couldn't locate the symptoms I am experiencing. My main concern is my risk for STDs/STIs. Obviously I now realize I made a huge mistake but I have been depressed and anxious about what long term affects this could have. If anyone could please help me it would mean a lot.
From the research I have done on this forum and others it appears that this contact is no risk? I engaged in a handjob and anal with a toy/condom because I believed it was safe. My main concern was the saliva to my anus and possibly with the handjob too. But like I said is it true that STDs require penetration or direct contact with the infected area? And saliva or hand contact is not a way to transmit any diseases?
When I went home, I washed my anal opening and penis several times over the next 24hrs with soap and water. 48hrs later on 2/14 and continued to this point my urethra started to have a weird sensation. Was this from an irritation by the washing or could it be something more serious? I am peeing fine, no burning.
My perineum area also hurts with the pain slightly traveling to my testicles. I am a heterosexual male and this was the first time I was penetrated anally. She was very aggressive/rough and two times during the penetration I had a sharp pain. Is the pain I'm feeling something that is normal and I am probably just bruised and will heal in a few day, or is it something more serious? This was also the first time I ejaculated in a month and it was the most I have ever released, could this extra intense orgasm be part of the soreness. I definitely wasn't relaxed during the anal penetration.
I tried to research as much as I could but I couldn't locate the symptoms I am experiencing. My main concern is my risk for STDs/STIs. Obviously I now realize I made a huge mistake but I have been depressed and anxious about what long term affects this could have. If anyone could please help me it would mean a lot.
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Hi, you had no risk for any std from your affair so any symptoms your having maybe an injury from the act itself.
Okay this is an update and I really need some help..
I got all my tests back, both the swab and the urine analysis. Negative for bacteria and all STDs except I have some evidence of bacterial vaginosis.
I am beyond words right now and so is my doctor because there is no male cases on the Internet and my only contact was through a handjob. Can someone please explain this to me? Can VB be mistaken for a similar bacteria? Can anyone link to a male case or explain how this happened?
I got all my tests back, both the swab and the urine analysis. Negative for bacteria and all STDs except I have some evidence of bacterial vaginosis.
I am beyond words right now and so is my doctor because there is no male cases on the Internet and my only contact was through a handjob. Can someone please explain this to me? Can VB be mistaken for a similar bacteria? Can anyone link to a male case or explain how this happened?
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Anybody have any possible explanation or know where I can get in contact with an expert?
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