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Whats wrong with me ?
When I was 15 years old, I had sex for the first with my boyfriend. I was young and uneducated about sex. we belived you take a girls virginity without a condom.Biggest mistake ever. A couple of weeks later, my vargina was very itchy at night and when i had to urinate there was a strong unpleasent odor. Also, i had to go to urinate every 3 mins and barely came out. I feared I had a STD & i didnt want to find out. The symptoms ended up leaving. since my first first time, I never had sex again because i feared i'll spread a std . 4 years later, I never ever been sexually excited, ever ! not with porn, girls, toys, by myself, nothing. I can't produce lubercation for myslef & I seen a GYN & she sed my vargina was very dry. I am not sure if a untreated std for such a long time can cause damage to the clitourous. But I cant feel my clitourous, not for pleasure or nothing. My period is normal but I bet my life there is something wrong. I know im not suppose to dig in my vagina but i did & white mucus came out. I also feel uncomfatable when I urinate or random days. I took an std for claymidad & gonherea & it came back neg. I want to be intimate again but I am sure there is something wrong. please help.
I'm glad these comments were helpful. Something to keep in mind for the future is when you have your own children someday (and I'm sure you will), pay it forward. Make sure they go into their sexually tempting and active years with accurate, objective knowledge and preparation.
Best wishes.
Best wishes.
your comment means so much to me. It blows my mine on the emotion respond I have from reading your comment. Just your positive enegry and your nice compliments means alot. Hopefully your right & my problems could be because of my bad experiences with sex.
Thanks again !
Thanks again !
Sorry to hear about the difficulties following your first sexual experience. You're a poster child for the importance of proper sex education, not influenced by political, social, or religious considerations.
That said, most of the symptoms and problems you describe almost certainly are not due to any STD you acquired either during your first sex or later sexual experiences, assuming you had other sexual relationships later. That initial event wasn't necessarily an STD -- yeast, urinary tract infection, and others are possible. But all those likely would have cleared up entirely by now, even without treatment. The only slight possibility is herpes, but that doesn't cause the kinds of symptoms you have had more recently. Finally, "I can't feel my clitorus" might suggest an injury during sex, with nerve damage. This problem should be easy to diagnose.
Even if it was an STD, there are no STDs that cause the kinds of symptoms you have had over the years. I would be suspicious that much of the problem is psychological, perhaps related to the scars of your early misadventures -- plus may an injury as noted above. It also seems your recent gyn is not very sensitive or knowledgeable about sexual dysfunction -- but it may also be that you didn't explain the things you did here. Speak with her again, and open up about all these details. If she isn't in a situation to help, she may refer you to another specialist.
In the long run, I'm optimistic you'll do well, and that with proper care you'll have healthy and happy sexuality, romance, and committed relationship. Why? Because I love your username! Underneath your fears and concerns, you know that you are the best. Make that work to your benefit!
Finally, I recommend a superb website. Visit the American Sexual Health Association (www.ashasexualhealth.org). You'll find loads of information about sexual health and happinness, including (but by no means limited to) STD prevention.
Good luck.
That said, most of the symptoms and problems you describe almost certainly are not due to any STD you acquired either during your first sex or later sexual experiences, assuming you had other sexual relationships later. That initial event wasn't necessarily an STD -- yeast, urinary tract infection, and others are possible. But all those likely would have cleared up entirely by now, even without treatment. The only slight possibility is herpes, but that doesn't cause the kinds of symptoms you have had more recently. Finally, "I can't feel my clitorus" might suggest an injury during sex, with nerve damage. This problem should be easy to diagnose.
Even if it was an STD, there are no STDs that cause the kinds of symptoms you have had over the years. I would be suspicious that much of the problem is psychological, perhaps related to the scars of your early misadventures -- plus may an injury as noted above. It also seems your recent gyn is not very sensitive or knowledgeable about sexual dysfunction -- but it may also be that you didn't explain the things you did here. Speak with her again, and open up about all these details. If she isn't in a situation to help, she may refer you to another specialist.
In the long run, I'm optimistic you'll do well, and that with proper care you'll have healthy and happy sexuality, romance, and committed relationship. Why? Because I love your username! Underneath your fears and concerns, you know that you are the best. Make that work to your benefit!
Finally, I recommend a superb website. Visit the American Sexual Health Association (www.ashasexualhealth.org). You'll find loads of information about sexual health and happinness, including (but by no means limited to) STD prevention.
Good luck.
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