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Hello all , I'm wondering about my risks from an encounter with a csw
last night , I met a csw she gave me a massage followed by a brief period of Frottage it was a light rubbing over my genitals and penis with her clitoris and genital area lasting about 5 minutes. She then continued with condom oral sex lasting about 5 minutes also. And finally a hand rub . Should I be concerned about any sti? I have read other threads but they don't address these scenarios. She was very dry during the entire encounter, and I washed with anti bacterial soap right after. I did ask her if she was clean and free of herpes or disease and she said yes and asked me to have a look I didn't see anything odd. I'm sorry for all the details but I'm afraid about passing something to my wife even though there was no insertive sex and oral was condom protected. What is my risk?
Update: I consulted my doctor tonight, and she said given the circumstances there is little or no risk as long as nothing shows up in 3-5 days no testing required since the events were protected and the Rubbing portion was so short lived . I did ask about an anti viral, and she explained even this would be overkill. Thanks again for your help
COMMUNITY LEADER
When there is genital to genital contact where her vagina is making touching/grinding contact with a penis and genital area no testing would be recommend if no genital sores develop about 2 weeks later OR if they have a long term partner.
We dont know the exact amount of contact that was made, but only know it was made and this contact puts your wife at risk for Herpes, Syphilis and HPV.
In not saying this to worry you as can tell your quite upset about all of this. Genital herpes can be on the genital surface without any visible sores/blisters and its called shedding and sheds about 15-30% of the time. It would be recommended to test. But you can also see you doctor and ask his opinion if there is a risk for your wife.
We dont know the exact amount of contact that was made, but only know it was made and this contact puts your wife at risk for Herpes, Syphilis and HPV.
In not saying this to worry you as can tell your quite upset about all of this. Genital herpes can be on the genital surface without any visible sores/blisters and its called shedding and sheds about 15-30% of the time. It would be recommended to test. But you can also see you doctor and ask his opinion if there is a risk for your wife.
COMMUNITY LEADER
Yes, the reasoning being if she did it with you most likely shes done it with many people. Its just a precaution
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Wow now I'm really freaked out
I just looked up the definition of Frottage, I'm sorry none of this went on .. I thought it meant light contact with my genitals and hers . There was no grinding so to speak, it was just the light contact lasting 5 minutes at the most ... With the condom protected oral sex and finally the hand finish. I'm so sorry for the confusion please advise the risk
COMMUNITY LEADER
Hi, since your married you would need to test for herpes and syphilis for her protection. What your mentioning is low risk but any risk to your wife would require testing.
herpes---3 mopnths
syphilis----6 weeks
herpes---3 mopnths
syphilis----6 weeks
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Is that mainly for the frontage?
Would that be because of the Frottage?
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
