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Worried sick....
Goodmorning... My situation is a difficult one. I am a married man that had sex with a female friend. I know her history as far as sexual partners and I know at one point of time she was promiscuous. We were drunk and one night I gave in. She performed oral as well as unprotected sex. She has told me time and time again that she always gets tested every 6 months and that shes clean. Also that she wouldnt have sex with me knowing she has something, But im still a bit worried. Im not sure if its guilt... but I havent had sex with my wife since the encounter and theres no pain during urination... barely any discomfort, but there has been a slight amount of white discharge for the past 3-4 days. That alone worries me. I also worry about HPV (which my friend told me she received shots for) but im still worried about that. I want to go to the doctors within a weeks time to get tested for everything (by then it would make it 3 weeks) but im so scared. What should I do? What do you think about the discharge? At times theres a slight tingling/feeling in my testicle area. I dont want my marriage ruined by one night of weakness. I want to trust my friend as well. But people are so cold now-a-days. But if she was so clean why am I having the slight white discharge? Thanks for your time.
What exactly is a low risk encounter? Also... is there a chance that the discharge is a UTI?
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Herpes spreads by oral, vaginal and anal sex.
Herpes sores blister, then burst, scab and heal.
STIs are the most common cause of genital sores.
Millions of people are diagnosed with STDs in the U.S. each year.
STDs can't be transmitted by casual contact, like hugging or touching.
Syphilis is an STD that is transmitted by oral, genital and anal sex.
Gonorrhea and Chlamydia-1 week
Syphilis-6 weeks (low risk)
Herpes and HIV-3 months (low risk)
Overall from a 1 time encounter the risk is low...most common STD's would be gonorrhea and chlamydia.
As for the discharge I would make nothing of it right now.