Ok...so A few years ago someone very close to me died...after that I slept with alot of men but I was very very careful even though the only method of birth control I was using were condoms, and when I didnt use a condom I still looked and was careful...well I noticed something about a year ago and I still havent gone to the doctor...I don't know what it could be...I have an idea but I'm way to scared to find out,I looked up the possibilities on the internet but I really don't have any symptoms of an std...Well I started dating this new guy and I still havent told him...and we have been having sex and I'm scared to death that he will get even though we use condoms, and I'm afraid to tell him because I'm afraid to lose him...But anyways I got my period for Januarary and it was not normal, it only lasted for a few days and then after that I spotted for 2 weeks straight...It freaked me out because that has never happened to me before, but then it went away for a week and then I got my period again and this time it was normal, but then the other day I started spotting again, What could be the cause of this? Do I have an Std?