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[iori]

i was with this girls and we were going to have sex but neither one of us had a condom. so instead of having sex we did forplay. she performed oral sex on me BUT she used my tshirt as sort of a make shift barrier (pulled down to cover my shirt over my penis) and performed oral sex. she also did the same thing using her vagina. she rubbed up and down my penis again with my shirt pulled covering it. i am planning on testing at 6 weeks and again at 12 weeks. is this incident really something to worry about?

[iori]

can bv live on my boxer shorts cuz thats were all that smelly stuff was.

[auntiejessi]

Vance, Emma, Grace, Dallas and others help out, too.  :)

Just remember that less than 1% of the US population has HIV, so the chances of you being with someone who does is unlikely, and use those condoms.  

Aj

[iori]

oh cool thanks. i thought the bacteria might do some damage but good to know. i apologize to you for being so paranoid and stuff. but thanks to the info you gave me in the past, i don't really fear gono, chlamydia, or syphillis. just the hiv. but i say thanks alot for your help. must be hard being the only one on the board who has to answer everyones questions.

[auntiejessi]

No, BV doesn't affect men.

I don't see any reason for concern here.  :)

Aj

[iori]

my cut was on my finger cuz i have always had a bad habit biting. it was not scabbed over and it was her juice that got on it. thats how i knew about the smell cuz i smelt my finger.
no i don't get anxiety all the time. usually i know what acts i perform are risky. sumtimes i do, like when im not really paying attention to whats going on when im doing it. then im like oh **** what just happened. this instance, my mind was drifting away for some reason. could be caused by my inability to focus.
you mentioned that the odor could be due to her period. i tried to call her but she don't answer. the blood i found and vaginal fluids were on my boxers and i know that the air would kill the virus if she had it, so i guess im not too concerned about that.
is that bacterial vaginosis something that can affect me even though im a dude.

[auntiejessi]

Was your cut scabbed over?  If it wasn't an open cut, you are fine.  Even if it was open, she'd have to have HIV, and most people don't.  Really - I see no cause for worry here.

If you still talk to her, why don't you just ask her about this?

And we can continue this topic in this thread, but if you get a concern again, lets start a new thread, as this is really long.

I also wonder if you have anxiety like this every time you have sex.  If you do, then maybe you need to stop having casual sex, and you and your partners could test before having sex.

Aj