can i get std from fingering and short oral sex?

[ONLYMIKE]

HI DOC.
first, i wanna thank u for your great effort for us , as we looking forward to learn from the mistakes.
iam a 20 year old guy , unfortunately i dated one girl who is 20 year old and we kissed each other for 1-2 minutes ( as my tongue on her tongue for a 10 second and as open mouth for 1 minute) then i wear a condom and she gave me an oral sex for 1 minute then i took off my condom and ejaculate in her mouth with no touch for her mouth . she kissed\put the head of my penis in her mouth for 10 second then i put the condom back on my peins but i dont know if i touched the side with her saliva. after that i fingered her for 2 minutes then i felt guilty and i stopped the action and went to the bathroom and wash my hand and then my penis .

iasked her and she told me she is clean and she works in a diner but i don't thrust her and she is smoker.
no ulcers , wonds or rashes on her lips and her vagina.
she told me that she had a protected vaginal sex with many partner except  2 of them - ex bf-
iam a college student i  couldn't   read or study anymore
everyday i check my body several times for the sign and symptoms of std especially herpesand syphilis

my questions doc are - plz. plz. help me -
1- can i get std by her saliva and her lips which touched my penis - i read that herpes easily transmit by that way - ?

2- can i get hiv by fingering , my nailbed  looks avulsed/ there is small gap beneath it ?

3- can i get std's by putting the condom back after my penis was exposed with her and viruses getting inside my urethra  by stretching the head of my penis while iam put the condom back ?

can i get std by open mouth kissing for a while - 1 minutes?

plz. doc. i am very scarred about that and i got depressed

iam scared from herpes, syphilis and hiv- and of course other std's
thank u and waiting for ur reply doc
thanxxx
3- c

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[2terrified]

You have been told by your doctor and Grace, also HealthAdvisory that your risk was very low. You don't seem to be listening. All you can do with no symptoms of herpes is to wait until you get test results. The stress you are causing yourself at this point is more of a health risk than your short oral sex experience.  You should remember this experience and use condoms at all times during oral, vaginal, or anal sex.

[ONLYMIKE]

PLZ. IAM WAITING FOR YOUR LAST REPLY

[ONLYMIKE]

FIRST I WANNA THANK ALL OF U FOR UR TIME AND HELP

BUT SORRY HE TOOK 2 URINE SAMPLES FROM ME .
ONE FROM THE START OF THE URINE AND ONE FROM MIDSTREAM
AND HE SAID THERE ARE WHITE BLOOD CELL IN THE SAMPLE FROM THE START OF THE URINE.  HE PRESCRIBE DEOXYCYCLIN 100 MG TWICE DAILY FOR 7 DAYS

REALLY AM SCARED FROM GENITAL HERPES  
AND HE SAID HE WILL TEST ME @ THE MID OF JULY
LONG TIME OF STRESS. ESPECIALLY WHEN I READ THAT HERPES MAY B ASYMPTOMATIC AND CAN B CATCHED EASILY

FINALLY I KNOW THAT I BOTHER ALL OF U BUT U KNOW THAT IS THE STRESS. I COULDN'T  READ ESPECIALLY AFTER THAT VISIT
THANK U VERY VERY VERY MUCH

[Healthadvisory]

You had a low risk encounter, if you don't have any symptoms I wouldn't worry about it.

[ONLYMIKE]

HI
sorry i went to a doctor and he took urine sample and swap from urethral orifice
and he gave me doxycycline
and he scared me when he mentioned  that he will do a blood test after 6 weeks

iam again depressed
plz. hlp me
i asked him am i @ risk ?
he said u r low risk activity but again u r high risk

[ONLYMIKE]

HI
sorry i went to a doctor and he took urine sample and swap from urethral orifice
and he gave me doxycycline
and he scared me when he mentioned  that he will do a blood test after 6 weeks

iam again depressed
plz. hlp me
i asked him am i @ risk ?
he said u r low risk activity but again u r high risk

[gracefromHHP]

this is the patient to patient forum. if you want a doctor's opinion, you have to pay to post on the doctor's forums.

this really was very low risk and not worth any testing for.

grace

[ONLYMIKE]

SORRY I FORGOT TO ADD
that i fingered her for around 2 minutes as i menshened
i really scared

plz. help me

[ONLYMIKE]

I THOUGHT the consultation  IS FOR FREE.

thanx for your reply. but i read that herpes and syphilis are risky and can be transmitted by this way easily and they are mostly asymptomatic
the problem that she sucked the head for 10-15 seconds and her saliva was there when i put my condom back .
iam very scared and i dont want to develop symptoms later  on . i want to discover it more rapid.

please help me with this