HELP: Blisters, red itchy rash and bloches and wart like spot!

[kayley6688]

Hi

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and half now, and around 3 weeks ago he was complaining that his penis was sore, iv taken a look at it, its red with blochy red spots (but no actually bumps)and very very ichy, also he has devoloped smegma, it seems to get better some days and some days it gets worse, over the last couple of days i have looked i have notice some kind of blisters on the top of his shaft and also one wart like spot, some of the symptoms seem like a yeast infection whichcould be passed on throgh me as i suffer from thrush, but i go to the GUM cinic quite often as i also suffer from bacterial vaginosis which comes and goes when it pleases. I know you may tell him to go to he doctors but he refuses to go ( which i think maybe a sign of guilt) i will be going to the clinic next week to see if theres anything wrong with me but i have no symptoms.

Coud you please write back as soon as possible please, as its really starting to worry me and obviously its starting to question our relationship

Thanks

[gracefromHHP]

he needs to be seen. no way to figure out what is going on with him until he has been. you shouldn't be having any more sex until he's had a proper work up done.

grace

[lissavalenz]

I stongly agree!  Absolutely no sex of any kind until he has been fully checked out by a doctor and has been cleared up.  Even after that, there will be changes.  He will have to completely take all of his medicatioin and still wait for at least another two weeks from the time that he is symptom free.  Then he will go on a suppressive therapy, which is crucial for you to make sure that this isn't passed on to you.  Condoms are a must even when he does not have any lesions because he can be shedding the virus at any time, even without symptoms.  Trust me, it's not just a rash, it's the rash from hell and it really hurts.  You do know want this!

Good luck,

LissaValenz

[gracefromHHP]

not everything is herpes. folks need to be seen and get a proper work up and testing by their provider, not be scared into thinking it's herpes needlessly.

grace

[kayley6688]

hi all

Thanks for the comments, but he will not go to the doctors which makes me think he is guilty of something! he refuses so i am going to go to see if i have anything, that is the only way i can find out really!!

[2terrified]

Well, please protect yourself from getting anything further and use condoms when having sex with him from now on.  If he refuses, then he should get to stepping until he shows you proof he got tested and treated.

[gracefromHHP]

tell him no sex until he goes ...that'll get him moving :)

grace

[kayley6688]

trust me that wont move him, im lucky if i get sex once a week now, he never wants it, he definatly wont go if i say that lol

He wont go at all, iv been on at him all day, so i bought him somethrush cream to see if that would work. if it is anything else im sure it will show up when i go to get tested.