it is possible that you had something else then gonorrhea or maybe someone's infection didn't fully clear.
i dont do oral so i no for sure that is not the cause of this and he says he was cleared up and then we did our thing and he has symptoms again
well his or yours might not have been cured so this could be the cause. or he could be still getting symptoms but be cured, or you might have oral gonorrhea and gave it back to him if you gave him oral sex.