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protected sex with sex worker.i am paramoid.

I was out my mind to do tht..i went to kissbang in Seoul and had protected sex with girl..we kissed  also breast..i used condom whille sex. as i was excited insertion lasted for less than 15-20 seconds..condom did not break.i removed ot carefully.wiped with tissue..these places don't cater to sex..just kissing as they advertise..so i had to dispose the used condom outside the .establishment..so it was wraped and was packed in the condoms packet for almost 1.30hr.it was in my pants packet..i am not getting what to expect about this..i may have seen some blood in her panties..please help me..i don't want to be miserable than this..i feel sorry for my entire life..
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If these were symptoms od oral herpes you would almost certainly have a blister otherwise known as a cold sore.  When you have a coldsore on your lip there is no mistaking it.  

You have an irrational fear of STD infection based I suspect on your regret from this encounter. You risk for any STD was very low.
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Hi, i got the STD results.they are "Negative" including HIV. everything is fine  fine as everybody said..thanks ..
there is still some mistery going on.

1.i have swollen lymph node at left side of my neck and i feel mild pain in my right testicle..it feels lettle bit swollen. as i can feel like extra padding around it.i cant sleep comfortably.
2.i still have sinus infection.dont have pain in may face..but since last week i am experiencing swollen gums and bleeding while brushing.also when i cough if the morning.last night i felt teeth pain felt like as it was coming from the roots..i cant say sore throat cause i dont have any difficulty swallowing food.but white tounge with red spots all over..i used decongestant spray almost 20 days back,,and since then my nose is just dry.no mucus atall.nose feels irritated.my eyes twich.feels like something is in the eyes.
one thing which scared me is one of my friend offered me to taste his drink .so i did.i did not realise it that time. but when she told me today her teeths are hurting and have swelling around neck and difficulty swollowing.i am freaking out once again.

can this be related oral herpes.  i just had blood and urine test no oral infection tests.. do i have to test it separately for oral infection.isnt it detectable through blood or urine test.?
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1. Could be
2. Can't say, could be several things
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Hi.i have been trying to deal with the issue..i got tested , no result yet..but i am experiencing pain in my right  testical..its not consistant..like flash.alos i noticed milky white descharge in the morning for 2 days now. i can see that cause i will be using comode in thw morning.. thoughout the day i use urinals .so cant judge..its been almost 3 weeks since the exposure.also i feel joint pain in knee and ankle..joints mainly and indside right thigh.i dont have burning sensetion while urinating..as you suggested this is due to anxiety issues..i want to ask
1.is my testicular pain related  to anxiety..? and if yes.
2.is it possible to have yellow milky discarge due to anxiety without having any std?
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This is classic signs/symptoms of guilt/anxiety. Seek a mental health professional. We can't help you with that here.
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hello,
i have taken appointment for checkup on sunday .but the clinic i went to .the doctor has given me some medicine if there is any stomach infection is there..i am  more worried that i am having  CHEST PAIN ON THE RIGHT SIDE. and also below the chest,loike clock ticking..its not consistent and  and most of the following symptoms which i found related to appendicitis.

Dull pain near lower right abdomen
Loss of appetite
Nausea and vomiting feeling in the morning

Constipation
Inability to pass gas
Dull pain in  lower abdomen, back and  rectum

i feel like rectum muscles contract which gives feeling of  diarrhea but in actual i pass thick stool.

question
1.can STD cause appendicitis.
2.Can STD cause gallbladder infalmation.

asking because till the time i go to hospital i can take care of these situation and dont want to neglect if there is any sign.
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Thanks alan.i understand.actually i am not the kind of person who will go down easily i feel..but this guilt is killing me..whatever me and my family wished for me.i let everyone down..i will get over this i am sure..i am definitely not going to do same mistake again in my life.please god give me one more chance.i want to be with my loved ones.please..thanks everyone..i hope get through this sithuation. thanks..
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Everyones tongue is full of bumps and diarohhea is caused by too many things to list.  You were almost at 0 risk for any STD.  For your own piece of mind get tested 6 weeks from exposure where you can almost certainly expect negative results and then put this behind you.
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What you are experiencing is quite likely a byproduct of a psychosomatic response.

You had a condom... therefore, the risk of infection from most bacterial STD's such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, trichomoniasis, ureaplasma and mycoplasma is next to 0.

Some minor risk might have been present for Syphilis, Herpes and HPV, but again, I find that doubtful since the condom likely covered most/all of your penis.
Also, if she didn't have any visible sores, etc, chances of being infected with anything is practically 0.

My advice would be that you stop obsessing about it, and if you want to be certain about things, go to a doctor and seek professional medical consultation.
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As Vance said, you had very little to no risk. If you cannot accept the information given here - you need to seek advice for your primary care provider. Most likely, you are suffering from anxiety and that in itself can make non-existent "symptoms" manifest.

Seek a primary care provider to assist you.
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What more do you want?
Seek a mental health professional to help you with your anxiety.
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Hello,please help me..i am in depression..its been 3 days since the incident..
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You had no risk for chlamydia, this is probably anxiety and nothing more.
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Hi.i am so worried now..i can sleep due to this..please help me..will it lead to something serious..?
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Thanks for your reply..since this morning i am feeling uncercumsised penis..i feel like going to pee all the time...no pain yet..no itching...i searched a little.possible UTI..what are the chances is might be chalmydia or simmilar infections/std..shoul i get tested..whats the time window..
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Your risk was very low for herpes, syphilis and HPV. Overall no reason to be concerned.
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