used condom but there was menstrual blood

[anxious101402]

Hi. First of all thanks for this site. It has given me a lot of information. However as many have found, my situation differs a little from what I have read and I will very much appreciate any help, I am very anxious.

I am a happily married man that couldn't get our of his head the "brilliant" idea of hiring an escort. I received protected oral sex and we had protected vaginal sex. After a couple of minutes of having vaginal sex we realized she started menstruating. I retired, went to the shower, took the condom off and cleaned the area. There was blood on my hands and on the base of my penis.

Lets supposed she had an STD. What are my risks? What can I be tested for now (1 day since the incident)? Was it possible that the blood was not menstrual and was from an infection?

My wife comes back from vacation next week. I will die if I give her something. I definitely cannot tell her what happened.

This is a huge waking call for me. Accidents happen, condoms break, partners we don't know may not love their lives as much as we do. Consider your risks in your sexual life.

[Vance2335]

Your question was already answered. "You never had a risk. Both protected oral and vaginal sex is safe sex."

[anxious101402]

Thanks for taking the time to answer questions, it is of real help.

I know that blood on my hands does not mean I am infected. What I would like to know is my risk of getting any STD (other than HIV) from my activity. And if menstrual blood increases this risk.

Thanks

[Aelly]

You never had a risk. Both protected oral and vaginal sex is safe sex. Blood on your hands does not mean you were infected. There is no need for testing at all.