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Anal issues

Ok so I was having sex with my partner, without a condom. I have never had anal sex and was completely not ready to try it yet but while we were in missionary position, he acidentally entered into my anal passage. Because he thought he was aiming at my vagina he wasnt cautious, gentel or lubricated. I immediatly was in pain.  I knew that without lubrication that the pain was inevitable, but wasnt prepared for the other pains later. Im not sure if it is related to the anal sex or because of the sexual position.  I have a herneated disc in my lower part of my spine, the next day I could barely walk. Now 2 days later my back is still in severe pain.  So I guess my question is if this is a common occurance with people with back issues?  And could there be any other reprecussions from the act not being prepaired and completely seizing up during?  
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Ouch the neck has got to be the worst possible place to pinch a nerve >< it would hurt to do pretty much anything,
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As for anal sex, I can totally relate to the accidental and painful experience that you described because I've had the same thing happen to me... "I thought that I was going to die!" Luckily, I've never experienced the additional back pain. But it doesn't surprise me that it could or would happen... because I suspect that you automatically tensed up your back muscles when you were unexpectedly penetrated. And, that tensing up most likely aggravated your pre-existing back problems. As far as other repercussions or consequences, there's the unhygienic aspect with the risk for bacterial infections caused by the penis entering the anal cavity and into the vagina. But, if you're talking specifically about other back problems, I suppose that a sudden strain or movement could cause a pinched nerve. I got a pinched nerve in my neck many years ago, when I was giving my bf oral sex.
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