Hi there,
To be as blunt as possible, I have been experiencing sexual problems throughout my life, thought it was my mindset and what I was thinking, was with my ex for almost two years, loved her to bits and yet when it came to sex, I did mange to get an erection but wasn't able to ejaculate. I did find her sexy. I thought maybe it was my mindset, thinking of different things that were stopping me going all the way with her, alot of the time though my focus wasn't even on different things, it was on her. I then blamed tiredness, and all the other excuses but maybe I was wrong to do that? The fact is, whether it's confusing or not, I have been able to ejaculate in front of her by myself and thinking about her! I have come across something called secondary impotentency for the first time in the last couple of hours, despite being in well over 3 years of psychosexual therapy and not being told about this. I was recommended not to take any drugs when I was in therapy like viagra and the likes and to allow nature to take it's cause. My ex even came to some of the sessions to speed up the recovery when we were dating.
Is there anything I can do? Will more therapy resolve the problems despite not being able to during an almost 2 year relationship with a very special woman, bearing in mind, I find it fairly easy to ejaculate in front of her when we were together? Do I have to resort to drugs and so on? Or maybe drugs won't help this matter as maybe it's not even neccessarily a physical problem?
Finally, are there any impotence dating websites out there - I did google impotent dating for men and found nothing?!
Thank you.