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Circumcised vs. Uncircumcised

I have never been with an uncircumcised man before, let alone even seen one for that matter until now. I've started dating my first uncircumcised man recently. And I really like him and things are great and we've had good sex.   The thing is.... I've never been a huge fan of the penis anyways. :) ( Hahah, I know, this sounds silly. )  But it took a little time, I guess, for me to really start getting in to handjobs and blowjobs with my EX (that I dated for a year). Well, obviously and uncircumcised penis is even less attractive and I honestly dont know what to do with it! LOL!  It's new and it's making me nervous. I've read so many back and forth articles about what men prefer and what is more healthy or whatever... it all goes back and forth. But I kinda want to know what you women think! Any preferences? Makes no difference? Does anyone have anything good to tell me to get me excited?? Haha... dont make fun of me.  It's nothing that's a big deal at all. I'm just looking for some friendly words of advice, I guess.
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Well if everything in ur relationship is going great not to mention that the sex is great i mean what more can u ask for?? as long as you know hes clean and u both trust each that alone is arousing that ur having sex with a clean partner!!! and the circumsized or not shouldnt matter. the best way to have good sex is to be OPEN with your partner and letting him know how u feel.
hope this some what helps you!!
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I love uncircumcised (natural) penises.  Most of my life I hadn't seen 1 in pictures or anything.  Then I started dated a guy who was uncircumcised & it really does make the sex better the way he glides back & forth.  He didn't do the incessant pounding that circumcised guys do.  Handjobs are better too.  No lotion is required!
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i prefer uncircumcised men because they are not as rough as a circumcised men, their actions are less powerful and can enjoy sex more.
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my bf is uncircumcised and I can relate to your feelings as did I have the same feelings in the beginning of our relationship and tried to push away because I thought that it was very strange and I had never been with a man that was uncircumcised.  Needless to say, once I let go of the voiced in my head, our sex got much better; now we have an amazing sex life!  Men that are uncircumcised have much more feeling than a circumcised man.  Just make sure that he cleans it properly, I hear that if he doesn't it can cause an infection for you!  Best of Luck, and always follow your heart!
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Ok..This is what ya do...When he falls asleep, get the knife out....And..
K, all jokes aside...My wife was never into oral sex or hand jobs,,..
So I didnt push the issue...It wasnt the end of the world for me...Sex life is good and it has been for over 25 yrs...If this is really a turn off for you..
And I think it is, tell him that your not into oral....He will understand, at least most men would....Take care....)
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I think it looks nasty when they still have the extra skin it creeps me out. But this is personal opinion of course. If it makes you feel that weird about it maybe tell him and he could get it taken off.
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well,im glad to see you ladies can appreciate the uncercumcized penis!,,lol
i happen to be one of those men,and not to toot my own horn,but i was always told i was a great lover!,,lol,,maby thats my little "trick up my sleeve"
i have also noticed that some girls just dont know what to think about it,but once they get a chance to actualy stop and "examine" with the own hands and eyes,there facinated!,,lol.....its kinda embarasing to let someone examine me,,but i found that by letting my partner do what they wanted like that,everything worked out for the best.
...obviously not being circumcized allows me,the man more sensation and the penis head is protected under the forskin,so it is soft and very sensative,and hasnt "dried out" without the skin.
oral sex can be VERY VERY sensative,and even sometimes TOO MUCH to handle for me!
well,i thought id share a little from the mans point of view,so if you got any question,feel free to ask,,lol,,,cram
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my present boyfriend is also uncircumcised, (my first), and I was intimidated by it too when we first became intimate. Actually his foreskin droops down from the end of his penis, so I was a little confused when it came to oral sex.  
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I've loved all the feedback! You know what, 2 1/2 years later, we're still together and MARRIED! =)  It's been AMAZING and we love each other dearly. Our sex life has been outstanding and I have learned to absolutely love a natural, uncircumcised penis! I can't imagine it any other way now. I'm glad I didn't let my uncertainties hold me back before and I appreciate everyone's feedback along the way If you haven't experienced an uncircumcised penis, I suggest you do... be open minded! :)
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