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scared tp try anal sex
Ok so this is hard to talk about but here it goes. I was intoxicated twice and had anal sex with my boyfriend of 2 years both times(dont remember it). Than I passed out once from being drunk and having an orgasm(crazy I know), than the other time was from a detox drink(messed with my hormone levels because of my birth control) and both times I passed out. Now ive developed hypochondria. Im scared to do anything from drinking alcohol,taking sleeping pills, even trying new vitamins. So my boyfriend is dying to have anal again but in order for me to do it I need to be somewhat intoxicated because otherwise im toooo tense/scared. I tell him well do it but when it comes time to I chicken out(horrible I know). Now hes super disappointed/mad because he says its stupid that i worry over everything(I just cant help it). I know i should have never lead him on but he just doesnt stop asking about it. Let me add that otherwise hes a great guy, very loving and caring, just sometimes has a bad attitude problem. Advice on what to do, thanks!
I second the advice of bobdylan. Don't let a boyfriend pressure you to do ANYTHING sexually that is not something you want to do, and I'm not just talking about you wanting to do it in order to please him, but you have to want to do it because thinking of it makes you sexually excited. If it is not exciting, it will not be fun, and will probably be painful, and what kind of boyfriend will pressure you to do something painful???
Why is he so interested in anal, anyway? Is it because it's the only kind of penetrative sex ha can get? (Some couples, especially young ones, only do anal because they are afraid of pregnancy from vaginal sex.) If this is the case, get yourself on the pill, and use it AND condoms, and have vaginal sex. Anal really doesn't do much for most women. Don't force yourself just because your boyfriend is pressuring you.
Why is he so interested in anal, anyway? Is it because it's the only kind of penetrative sex ha can get? (Some couples, especially young ones, only do anal because they are afraid of pregnancy from vaginal sex.) If this is the case, get yourself on the pill, and use it AND condoms, and have vaginal sex. Anal really doesn't do much for most women. Don't force yourself just because your boyfriend is pressuring you.
Hi don't let your boyfriend bully you into having Anal sex at all or something you don't want to do ,Please stay off the Drink and sleeping tablets they are not doing you no good at all , it's fun having a drink but when you forget things you have done tha'ts when the problems start , Please Take care , x
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