I think I'm addicted to masturbating

[sashamaria]

OK. So I'm about to be 15 years old. I think I'm addicted to masturbating. I have had DD cup bra since i was 12 years old. We all know boys like big breast. This means i have gotten a lot of offers to have sex (Which i refused). Most of my friends are not virgins but i am. Which no one can believes because there are always so many boys after me.
Anyways in 7th grade my boyfriend tried to talk me into having phone sex with him. So i did it. i had no clue what i was doing. He walked me through it. Since then ii didn't do it a lot (maybe 2 times a month).
Later on, he moved to NY. We been together this whole time. Well we just recently broke up. Well i loved him and i felt if i loved him i would do anything for him.Well hes kind of older then me. Not by that much just bout a year and a half. Hes not a virgin. Hes actually a nympho or whatever you call it.
So once and a while we will have phone sex & go on web cam and things like that. As soon as i hit 8th grade i started doing it everyday. mostly every night i stay up until 530 am. Most of the night I'm just masturbating and watching porn. (In fact its 552 right now and i just finished masturbating a few Min's ago)
Just after i finished i was like "i think I'm addicted". So i decided to do search and ended up at this site.

SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME. I don't know what to do about this anymore. I just have this urge to do it and i cant help it. it had gotten so bad i sometimes do it in school.

Do you guys think im addicted?

[Dalubaba]

This is just an idea. It may work. Foment perinium wiht Ice cubes. Put ice cubes in a cloth and foment the perinium. this may work. If it is inconvinient please do not do it.

[Dalubaba]

Visit more website on kegel to understand. First, you have to identify the muscle you contract to stop urination. this muscle you have to contract. Just to know whether you are contactin the right muxcle, inser your finger in your vagina and cotract the kegel muscle, if your finger is pressed, you are contacting the right muscle.
Kegel can be done even in your class room. Nobody will know what you are doing. Probably you can replace masturbation by kegel.
There is Yoni sidhasan. This is a sitting posture where you touch your vagina wiith you hill of your feet while sitting cross legged. Search the  word Yoni asan  or Sddh yoni asam . This will benefit you in many ways. Thise are all long term technique. Result will be as per your effort and enthusiasm.

[sashamaria]

Thanks i will try everything you suggest. By the way, Kegels are extremely hard to do. I heard of them before and i looked into it. They said it will take lots of practice to do it the right way (I'm still working on it). But I will definitely look more into the other things you said. Thanks for helping me and I'm going to prey it works.

[sashamaria]

I don't want to have sex because I don't want a reputation and I don't web cam with everyone i go with. it is only this one boy. i told myself I'm going to lose my virginity to him when i get older. I came to this conclusion when i had a horrible experience. i gave a boy i liked Oral sex and the whole school found out & blah blah blah, you get the picture but i know my boyfriend wouldn't do that to me. We been together way to long. He had more respect then that. Anyways that's why i think I'm waiting and yeah i understand where your coming from about the whole getting caught thing. I'm trying really hard to stop the whole masturbating at school because i realize that can effect me big time. I'm kind of a shy person too but with him I feel comfortable.

[oursecret]

i dont want recoment u to just do it already because ur so young, but girl if ur web caming with ur boyfriend???? i lost my virginity at 13 but was alway so shy to try new things until i hit 18. i never even let them know i masterbated little less show them. now at 21 im now okay with camaras my point is if ur so open with ur sexuality what is stopping u of having sex?. Maybe the thought of feeling the real thing has u going. Of course after the real thing u will still masterbate but maybe it will stop the erge of having to do it everywhere all the time. UR hormones are at that age right now there is nothing wrong with it just figure out how it wont affect ur personal life. imagine u get caught at school materbating by a teacher, or a stupid student watch them say it was sexual harassment iv seen situations where people lose jobs because they masturbate at work in the bathroom. just a thought

[Dalubaba]

Masturbation is a natural habit. If you are satisfying your natural urge, it is ok. to get extra excitment thruough porno lead to probem. Be calm about it. Deep long breath will dissipate sexual feeling. Learn kegel exerxises. this is good for overall sexual health. Sat kriya is another technique which can help to contol sexual feelings. Try some meditaion. Too much worry harms more than the actual act.
You can calm yourself with perinium bath.Pet the perinium (muscle between the legs(bwtween vagina and anus) with water dripping cloth for 10 to 15 minutes per day. This muscle is full of nerve endings. regular perinium bath is very effective. you may adjust yourself in a tur in such a way the perinuim and some surrounding parts are immersed in water . we focus more on perinium. It is worh trial.In hydro therapy it is called mehan snan.