i agree you losing it dose not mean your bleed most girls dont when they lose theres
Sorry, but it is possible to lose your virginity without bleeding, lots of women don't bleed. That is part of why the idea that a virgin must somehow prove her virginal status on her wedding night by bleeding is so ludicrous. But if a woman is in that position, she can either explain about the vibrator (I'd bring it along in case he wants proof) or she can go the other way and use the trick from the Middle Ages where she pokes herself with a pin. The whole thing is pretty silly since a woman who has lost her virginity can fake blood, and a woman who has not lost her virginity before the wedding night might still not bleed. But the o.p. is in this position.
you are virgin yet , and you didnt lost it , its imposible lost it without bleeding , and acording to what you explained you hadnt bleed , though you are virgin .
If you don't bleed, and if it is important to your husband to see blood, just explain to him about the vibrator. Most places and cultures define virginity as never having had a man's penis inside you.