No feeling while sex

[Silverdusky]

Got I little problem what really gets on my nervs as you can emagine. I never had any feeling during having sex ever...
Its just like its dead inside, have a very painfull menstruation every month to, but taking hormons help...

can any body help me with my problem? Went to a female doctor and she said every thing is ok, but how can everything be ok?

Thanks

silverdusky

[BeautifulUAre]

Reading all of your comments makes me feel that I am not alone. However it is a little sad and depressing. Now I feel that it's no hope and it's something I'll have to live with for the rest of my life. I'm only 20 and reading that some people are twice my age and still haven't felt a thing makes me feel that there is no cure. I can get orgasm by playing with my clit which last no longer than 5 seconds but when I have sex I feel the pain of it going in or if it goes too deep but there is no pleasure I just feel something pumping inside of me. I still get the urge to have sex but it's like there's no point I could just live life without it. Like most of the other women I just do it to please my boyfriend. I want to tell him about my problem but it's something I'll rather keep to myself.

[stephie679]

Wonderful advice

[stephie679]

OK my friends, I m suffering from the same problem. I am going to get acupuncture tomorrow. I will report back, I have had acupuncture for the same thing years ago and it was amazing. A day later I had sex and I came easily, it felt like what I had always imagined sex would be like.. natural and flowing. Stand by I will let you know how I get on. It involved acupuncture three fingers down from my belly button, apparently you can do acupressure and it does the same thing.

[Dalubaba]

Urologist or gynecologist can prescribe some hormone preparation to normalize your libido. however, you can use some exercise like kegel exerciser, female deer exercise.doing lot of fore play before intercourse( your husband has to do it). Selecting new postures,Research Google with appropriate inquiry. there are many websites which can help you. you may also search in kundalini yoga exercises.  

[Sopcarjac]

From the very first time I lost my virginity, I thought to myself .."That's it? This is what sex is supposed to feel like? What is the big deal because I don't really feel anything." I've been sexually active since I was 17 and I'm 29 years old now. I have no feeling during sex. It just feels like an object inside of me and if he goes deep, I feel pain. The idea of sex gets me aroused but actually doing it is boring. However, I can orgasm all day from clitoris stimulation. I've been with my husband for almost 6 years now and I just thought it was normal. However, one day after coming home from drinking at a party with my husband, The most amazing thing happened to me. While intoxicated my husband decided to have sex with me. From the moment he penetrated me, I had the most amazing sensation during sex...something that I've never felt before... It was as if I had every nerve in my vagina turned on. It was the most amazing feeling I have ever experienced. At that point I knew what sex was supposed to feel like. Ever since that day I've been trying to get that wonderful feeling back again during sex. However, its been almost a year now and I haven't had much luck. I'm starting to feel helpless and very frustrated. Is there any cream or medication I can use to help me?

[slk200]

Does anyone else that has this problem also have a problem with getting excited about general things that aren't to do with sex or other emotions cause I have the same problem but as it has progress my other emotions seem to have dwindled but I don't know if this is to do with the fact this has had an affect on me or whether they are connected, thanks!