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Penis size

My man and I have great sex and when he is erect, he is the perfect size for me; however, when he is not erect, it becomes so small you can't hardly find it.  This does not matter to me at all!  But he is exceptionally embarrased by it and will not let me touch him below the waiste when he is not erect.  He has asked me to help him get over this but I don't know how to help him.  What can I do?
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Whenever measurement of length of penis is considered, it is considered when erect. Length in fflacid stage is not considered. Length in flacid stage is variable, depending on various factors including temperature of environment. Some times, Penis retracts inside the scrotum. Girth and strength of erection is more important. Erotic zone of vagina is 2 inches deep. So erect 2 inch penis can satisfy a woman.......
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mine is 3 inches fully erect...he should be happy
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Some guys are "growers" and some guys are "showers." This means that while some guys have a smaller flacid penis it experiences a much larger percentage of growth with an erection. Other guys might me large when flacid but it doesn't grow as much. In other words, some guys "grow" and some guys "show."

For example, a guy with a 2 inch flacid penis might have a 6 inch erection, while a guy who is 4 inch flacid might end up witha 5 inch erection. In reality, about 90% of all guys are between 5.5 and 6.5 inches erect, no matter what their flacid size is.

Try to let him know how much you like it. One of the most fun things for a guy is to have it get hard while you're holding it. If he'll let you do this it will give you an opportunity to praise him for his growth and tell him that it's just perfect.
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everyone has small penis when not erect. don't worry this is not a problem.
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