Erectile problem

[Husbanwife]

I am newly wed person. I have got such a sudden and horrible problem that I am thinking to suicide.
Most of the times my penis is erected and mostly is touching my belly but right at that time when i am with my wife it does not even stand and i have to face soo much shame. Even my wife is too upset with me.

Can anybody please help me, please for God's sake...please. my married life is ruining. What I should to do to get rid of this problem

Regards,

irfan

[Husbanwife]

Thank you very much friends, I think I am very lucky because I have very valuable advices from all of you and I shall benefit from all the tips. Please keep me remember in your prayers as I need yours prayers so much.

Further more, If i need your help in future please be closed to me to help me, please, please, please.

May Almighty Allah keep you all safe and sound in all the respects.

Take care,

Bye

[Dalubaba]

If you masturbated and discharged, your next discharge will be delayed. you may try applying lignocaine hydrochloride on your glans . It is local anesthesia. apply just small quantity. Applying more will defeats the purpose.Nerve endings will be less sensitive and discharge will be delayed. This is a stop gap arrangement. jut to get confidence.Lignocine hydrochloride is available as a spray or ointment. Ointment is convenient for the beginner.
If fail, sometimes you can masturbate her to reach orgasm. For this circulate finger around her clitoris or her Labia.This effort will show her that you can take care of he desire.This could be done in a friendly manner.

[Husbanwife]

Friend, If i discharge sooner, then it shall again make me ashamed, can you guide me in this regard, please.

[Dalubaba]

Above messages are good suggestion You can also try This method. Before intercourse, masturbate half an hour before.  once you have enjoyed, you will be confident of the performance.Or if you can make her cooperative you may try the following technique.Do not try penetration or any thing. just keep you penis on her vagina. Sit as long as you can.Do it for few days.Then try enter her vagina.First insert you one finger, and keeping this finger as a reference pint enter her and just sit only., Gradually start thrusting and holding. In this method, your wife will have to be cooperative. Ultimately you will be able to do full intercourse.This type of situation happens with many couples. Sexologist, advise a gradually reach sub goals......Point is you get acclimatized with each step..When you get more aquainted with her naked body, you will develop  patience and do a normal inter course.

[Caryopteris]

It sounds like you adore your wife and you are distracted and nervous when you are with her.  In a way it is a compliment to her.  You could try taking pumpkin supplement and L-arginine to rev things up, but also get exercise such as running to near exhaustion.  This will get rid of your nervous energy and calm your mind so you will be too tired to be anything but relaxed with her.  But it tends to increase testosterone and help erections too.  

Your wife needs to be nice to you and not demanding, because she is increasing nervousness, but she doesn't know that.  So agree to be nice and patient with each other.  When she gets pregnant, her hormones will change and she will need understanding from you, so it's just your turn for understanding.  

[CRSeaside]

Dear Irfan, this does not have to be so distressing.  Newly married people experience different stresses.
   In Western cultures, playing before sex relaxes as well as stimulates. Kissing,talking about the things that make you feel warm inside,more kissing.
It is said that the brain is the largest sexual organ in the body. Pamela