Hello to all,
Quite an embarrasing one - but here it goes.
Im male, early 20's, straight.
I havent been doing it recently (perhaps for the past year), but for a very long time, maybe since 19yrs old, ive been carrying out anal masterbation. This has been with various objects (i need not specify - but some very large)
Now, there are two problem. 1. Anal leakage 2. Swollen appearance of my anus.
Regarding 1, I've actually had to purchase some baby wipes to keep down there clean. Three times a day is what i do on average. Its not 'severe', but i'd rather get rid of this problem because though it is in small amounts, the smell is not pleasant.
Regarding 2, I've just realised this 3 days ago. After doing a poo, and wiping, something in my mind told me to take a picture (because since i could remember, i could feel something was swollen). Stupidly, i ignored it.
However, when i took a picture with my mobile i was extremely shocked to say the least.
If you go to google and type in Heamoroids or piles, it has a very similar appearance. HOWEVER, in my case, the appearance is not red, or yellow, or purple. There is no pain when i go toilet. There is no redness or itching. And ive never ever had a problem doing a poo. So i assume that it is not Hearmorroids/Piles, [since ive done a little research].
Reason of swollen anus and THEREFORE the leakage? probably the anal masterbation.
I want to get rid of this problem ASAP. I want to avoid speaking to anyone about this - Going to the doctor will be last resort. Its hassle and very uncomfortable since i am in a relationship right now !
Please can someone help. Male and females welcome.
Many Thanks to all.