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1423462 tn?1282625784

no orgasam

so me and my bf (my first and only partner) have had sex many many times and every time we have sex, he has an orgasam but i've never had one.... idk if there is something wrong with me or with him???...is this normal??? like i've had an orgasam before just not when im having sex with him. what should i do?
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I have the same issue and I'm learning to live with it. Many woman have this problem and it just takes time with ur partner to figure out how to wrk things out. Tho I still can't orgasm for sex. Oral sex is very satisfing.

Talk to ur man and good luck!
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My wife is hard to make orgasm with just straight sex so often enough I stimulate her with my hands or orally first.  I either get her to orgasm or just before and we enjoy the rest of the way.  Reading different articles, many men and women have go thru this and need other stimulation.
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1419501 tn?1320206310
that happens to alot of people. try as a couple to talk about it.. let him know what u like and what gets you off. anlgles and depth so forth and ask him to try and do what you do..
good luck
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1423462 tn?1282625784
idk if it helps but im not his first. and do ya think it would have 2 do with like the where we'er doing it maybe??
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