Sexual Health Community
Sex doesn't feel good anymore why?
About This Community:

This forum is patient support community for questions discussing Birth Control, Fetishes, Foreplay, Intimacy, Masturbation, Orgasms, Partners and Relationships, Pornography, Positive and Negative Sexual Experiences, Virginity, Safe Sex, Sexual Orientation, Sexual Surrogates, Sexual Positions, stimulation, and toys. This forum is not for STD or HIV related questions. For these questions, please visit our STD or HIV forums.

Font Size:
A
A
A
Background:
Blank
Blank
Blank
Blank Blank

Sex doesn't feel good anymore why?

Hi, I need some advice.
I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we always had good sex and it felt great. About a year ago it started to not feel like anything and sometimes hurt. I've tried switching birth control pills and taking natural libido pills but nothing has worked. I try and pretend it feels good for him but it literally feels like nothing is going on inside me. What is an explanation for this? Why did it go from feeling so good to feeling like nothing? I just want to look forward to having sex again, i constantly avoid it because it does not feel good anymore.

please help :(
thanks!
2 Comments Post a Comment
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
Has it become routine?  Are you getting enough foreplay?  How is your out-of-the-bedroom intimacy?  Do you guys let each other know you find each other desirable through little touches throughout the day?  How is the relationship otherwise?  A lot of these things can affect how things feel for a woman.  I'm not sure what else could cause a drastic change like that unless you had some sort of damage down there at some point?
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
In addition to the questions thatquietgirl asked, could you be depressed?  Depression can completely kill your sex drive and make it not fun anymore.  If you think depression is even a remote possibility, try taking the Beck Depression Inventory.  It includes a question about sexual desire/health, and it gives a general severity score instead of a complete yes/no answer.  Either way, you should talk to a doctor about this, because such a loss is not normal.

You need to tell your boyfriend about the problems you're having if you want to fix them, even if it is depression killing your sex drive.  He won't be able to help you at all if he doesn't know something's wrong.
Blank
Post a Comment
To
Blank
Weight Tracker
Weight Tracker
Start Tracking Now
Sexual Health Community Resources
RSS Expert Activity
469720_tn?1388149949
Blank
Abdominal Aortic Aneurysm-treatable... Blank
Oct 04 by Lee Kirksey, MDBlank
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
The 3 Essentials to Ending Emotiona...
Sep 18 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
Control Emotional Eating with this ...
Sep 04 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
Top Sexual Health Answerers
Avatar_f_tn
Blank
remar
st. louis, MO
139792_tn?1299416777
Blank
Dalubaba
Indore, India
1622896_tn?1418684976
Blank
bobdylan1958
Outside London, United Kingdom
580755_tn?1357673215
Blank
Vance2335
Buffalo, NY
4851940_tn?1385441629
Blank
jemma116
United Kingdom
1340994_tn?1374197577
Blank
Caryopteris
Raleigh, NC