My name is Duane, and I am 20 years old. My girlfriend and I had sex about 3 weeks ago. The unfortunate thing is that I could not orgasm during sex after having sex for about 2 hours. About a week prior, she gave me a handjob and I could not orgasm either. When we had sex, I was a little nervous because she told me that she had herpes. Even with a condom on, I was still afraid and a little worried. As for the handjob, we did it in a parking lot with cars passing so I was nervous as well. Despite this, my impotence during sex made me very worried about my orientation. Every now and then, I get "Am I gay" panic attacks. For my whole life, I have been straight and watch a large amount of straight porn (which I have read could have been another reason for my impotence). I also do have a history of panic attacks throughout my life, primarily in academics. Even though I think I may suffer from E.D. and/or delayed ejaculation, I still have these concerns despite my certainty about me being straight. What is my problem?