Hello, hope you can help! On and off for the past two or three months now, I've had pain, redness and swelling around the entrance to my vagina. It started when I got a new boyfriend and we started having sex.
Two weeks ago, I also got what looks like a scratch just outside the entrance to my vagina and it won't heal, maybe because It keeps getting irritated each time I go to the bathroom or have sex. It stings and tingles but doesn't itch. There is a little bump beside the scratch but I can't tell if that's just a normal bump.
This has happened once before three years ago (again after I began a relationship). I was worried it was herpes but when I went to the gyno he said it was just irritation (he sent a sample to the lab). Now it's happened again so I'm again worried it might be herpes. But would it be possible to have only two outbreaks in three years? I've had three partners in that time, and it happened after I had sex with two of them. When I was celibate in between--once for 14 months--this was never a problem.
I have an appointment at the STD clinic but it's two weeks from now. I was hoping you could tell me if this sounds like herpes, or if not, what it might be.