you can do kegel exercises where you tighten your vaginal muscles... tighten, hold, relax, and repeat. women do these after they've had children to help get back to normal. tell your man maybe you're not gettin bigger....maybe his penis is shrinking hehe.. If my husband said that to me he would be takin care of himself for awhile! =P
thanks for replying! and yeah, that was pretty out of line, i need to let him know how it's made me feel and that it would be in his best interest not to talk to me like that again, haha.