No sex for Steph

[FiFiRenee]

im not exactly sure if this kind of situaton coimes under this topic but i thought i would ask anyways,, ive been in a long term relationship now for many years,, and my partner has just stopped in giving any sexual activitis for me,, though he is happy to take some thing that pleases him but not me,, and i can wait for months at a time until he will give me something that in the end i find my self asking "what was the piont?"
i dont understand his behaviour as he used to be so giving,, and now i feel hes become selfish in rejecting me and what i wouldnt mind once in a while,,
is this normal,,
or is there something that i am missing ??

[FiFiRenee]

thank you so much for that,,
i have to keep it in mind,, =]

[AnnieBrooke]

Gotta say, the hormones of pregnancy are not your friend when it comes to not taking things personally.  A friend of mine used to cry at cat-food ads when she was pregnant.  If your boyfriend is also 19, it's possible that he's having a reality-based cold feet attack.  I wouldn't challenge him for physical proofs of love at such a moment.  He'll snap out of it when he sees how wonderful the baby is.  Right now, it's not too hard to blame him if he's somewhat unnerved -- the unknown is always frightening.  Plus, it is really true that some guys really are scared to touch a pregnant body.

[FiFiRenee]

ive been with him for almost 5 years now,,
sorry about how ive worded everything,, im confused too LOL
its been over 6mths now where he wont pu out and give me something though he will be happy to take when i give him something,,
he wanted this pregnancy more than what i did,, and now youve got me worried about the commitment thing,,
i know i have been mentioning it alot as too why he wont give me anything,, and just giving him **** that i feel hes rejecting me ??

[AnnieBrooke]

It's kind of hard to understand you saying you've been in a relationship for many years, and that your partner has not been giving you sex, if as your bio says, you're 19 and pregnant.  How many years is "many years?"  If you're 17 weeks pregnant, is it possible that he doesn't want to have sex because he is afraid of hurting the baby?  Is it possible he's scared of commitment and the whole thing (pregnancy, sex, baby, commitment) has him feeling kind of pressured?