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Hi I want to do anal sex, but the anal hole is very small in my wife condition, when i tried once it became very tough and doesn;t enter in but a small cut at anal and i am very much pleasure to do anal sex, doctor pl. suggest me how it will be possible and how to accept my wife for anal sex.
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As long as you are BOTH willing and instead of going straight for the kill by inserting your penis, why don't you try using a small sex toy or your finger first and as time goes on use bigger ones untill she can take your penis. Remember she needs to enjoy this too!
Raj, you have an unlimited resource with the internet, do some research and include her. I do have a few tips first;
~Lubrication, apply generously.
~Start small. Begin by using a finger and work up slowly to something larger.
~Have her push out while your pushing your finger(s) into her rectum.
~Communication, she can't see back there. Let her know whats going on and encourage her to communicate as well.
~If there is any pain, sit still and wait for her sphincter to adjust to the intrusion.
~Make sure she is relaxed.
~The large intestine is only about 3 inches long. You can stretch it, but you must go slow, or there will be pain.
Sometime when you are alone, apply lubrication to your finger and stick it into your own resctum. You will have a better idea of what she is feeling. You can apply that knowledge and the experience will be more enjoyable to her. Also prostate stimluation will reduce the chances of prostate cancer later in life. So there are health benefits for a man to massage his prostate, or have his lover do it for him. An experience you can both share.
~Lubrication, apply generously.
~Start small. Begin by using a finger and work up slowly to something larger.
~Have her push out while your pushing your finger(s) into her rectum.
~Communication, she can't see back there. Let her know whats going on and encourage her to communicate as well.
~If there is any pain, sit still and wait for her sphincter to adjust to the intrusion.
~Make sure she is relaxed.
~The large intestine is only about 3 inches long. You can stretch it, but you must go slow, or there will be pain.
Sometime when you are alone, apply lubrication to your finger and stick it into your own resctum. You will have a better idea of what she is feeling. You can apply that knowledge and the experience will be more enjoyable to her. Also prostate stimluation will reduce the chances of prostate cancer later in life. So there are health benefits for a man to massage his prostate, or have his lover do it for him. An experience you can both share.
When I was with my partner, she said to me that she never liked anal sex. Well I had her take pics for me doing anal on herself. She loved it. Then, I had her in person. I went slow, used 1 finger, 2 fingers, then finally went in slowly. She LOVED it. Be patient and it can be great for both parties.
the truth about it all is that,sex in marriage is not called sex unlike others,it's called love making...where you and your spouse will both whoile heartedly give each other the best affection and soul communication...not where you have sex at the detriment of the other...in your own case,if i may ask,does she want the anal sex?if yes then steadyness and gentleness do it well but if not,why trying to enforce it on her?...
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