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cant *** during sex

my boyfriend is 31 years old,hes a healthy fit man.doesnt.smoke or drink..issue is he can never *** during sex.i on the hand *** every time.i am also years younger,& 31 weeks pregnant.the only way to get him to *** is by giving him a handjob.he masturbated for many years in the past,do you think him masturbating for many years has affected him from ******* during sex?he says he has never *** during sex with anybody before.also he is always relaxed,  concentrated, and never nervous for sex so i don't think he has a problem with staying relaxed.pls help its becoming an issue with our sex life
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139792 tn?1498585650
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A female can give more pleasure by intercourse to her partner than by masturbation. IN fact both can enhance the pleasure of each other by by learning techniques of intercourse. Both can achieve full body orgasm. By masturbation and half heated intercourse  one gets shall pleasure.Learning to do do a proper intercourse is a process (not a one time affair of improvement)  
Research in the internet, and do your best to understand plethora of techniques.  Of course to achieve success you would need coperation love form both the partners.
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139792 tn?1498585650
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By masturbating one learns to ejaculate prematurely. Edging, kegel exercises, abdominal breathing, circulating sexual urge around microcosmic orbit. There are few of many techniques to improve sexual performance. Convince hime to do this exercises or consul sex therapist.Ask him to masturbate with lubricated hand only. He should continue breathing.There are other tips to make masturbating less harmful and more pleasurbable.
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I would recommend you talk to your boyfriend about not masturbating so often. It sounds like you're right. He has his self used to hand stimulation.
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