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circumsized?

im 18 yearsold and thinking about getting circumsized i have had sex with different partners the problem i have is that i am to vigorous and go fast and put it in after for play but since i am uncircumsized the forskin in the back rips if i go into fast and it gets pulled down and starts to bleed and sting so i cant go on,it really bums me out and do not like to worry about getting hurt when i have sex i take time to put it in and cant do certain positions but it still sometimes rips in the back ad hurts like crazy so thats why i considering doing it....but i have heard it hurts and stings and desensitizes the penis?i need advice or tips please? and sorry for the bad spelling and punctuation
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My boyfriend is uncircumcised. Very rarely is there bruising, because I am lubricated by the time he gets inside of me. Make sure that your partner is properly lubricated, or if keep some ky jelly handy. That will definitely reduce your risk of bruising.
If you do decide to go ahead and get circumcised, that should be fine too. it may be a little painful, but you should be ok. My ex-fiance did it at 24 and it turned out fine. Follow the instructions given by your doctor carefully to prevent any infection and the experience will give good results.
Good luck.
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Im not circumsized and ive been pretty rough and have never had any experiences like that. My foreskin is pulled back easily when im aroused and there is no pain at all, and then it returns to normal after intercourse. id get checked out if i were you
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If you're being rough or vigorous, chances are that too much friction is what's the problem. If the foreskin is being pulled back with too much force, its thin frenulum or inner lining can tear. Try using some lubricant, going more slowly, or both.
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1254841 tn?1269294883
you should really see a doc to make sure everything is working right, due to the bleeding and ripping, but other than that... listen to your own voice, if you want to- DO IT, don't let anyone talk you out of it, or talk you into it.

i chose to have my son done- and i see no problems at all.
=)

good luck, hun.
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Fore skin harbours many nerve endings. It protects glans  and keep it senitive. One should avoid circumsisation as far as possible. Take doctor's advice.
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i too am uncircumcised and love the sensitivity, but the ripping and bleeding doesnt make sense. You should really see a doctor and NOT GET CIRCUMCISED. It will desensitise you from what i understand
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