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confused and tight
hi im a sixteen yearold girl. i tried having sex with a guy i had liked, when i was fifteen, who was two years older than myself. I know it went in because i started bleeding but he kept telling me i was really tight and couldnt keep it in. at the time, i was very drunk but did whatever he asked me to do. i know he used alot of lube to try stay inside, but he just got frustrated and gave up on trying. its still embarrassing to look back on but all i can think of is that i might not have been wet enought? please help, im worried about doing it again and as far as im concerned, im still a virgin.
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It's really hard for a girl to get wet if she's not in the mood properly, it's a lot easier for the guy just to switch on and get going. You're probably just too tight, me and my first boyfriend could NEVER do it because he could never get it in because I was too tight. I was probably tight because I was extremely nervous, which is usually the main cause of tightness AND wetness. You probably felt uncomfortable and stressed, which is never good for sex. Don't worry and make sure next time you do it you're fully relaxed and not nervous :) take things at your own pace instead of his!xo
Well, if you experienced penetration, you're no longer a virgin! Maybe lubrication was the answer; however, no way to tell after the fact really. Just take your time and don't worry about the other guy's problems. You are fine just the way you are!
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