help sex problem

[becca1987]

ok im 23 and this is really personal i cant stay wet durning sex!!!!! there is nothing wrong with my husband i get wet but cant stay that way he thinks its him and then he gets turned off  he doesnt like using lube or lubricated condoms he feels like he doesnt turn me on but he does i have had this problem in the past ive had it since i began having sex whats wrong with me  is there anything that will help this is statrting to kill our relationship because i cant stay wet so he cant stay hard and it becomes awkward

[Diamondprincess8]

I am 24 years old. im nt able to get wet during sex since 2007 or getting fingered to my self or another fingering me. What can i do to be able to do .

[litlsicily]

I use an over the cdounter product call Replense. It's a vaginal lubricant that you insert in your vagina. It has worked wonders for me.  Insert it before intercourse. I am in meopause and I no longer have dryness during intercourse.

[Myron_Long]

Are you sure you're horny enough when you have sex with your husband? Try going like 5-7 days without any foreplay, masturbation, or anything related with your mind/vagina and see if that makes a difference in your sex libido (possibly getting a wetter vagina).

Let me know the outcome!

[ericashley]

I used to have the problem all my life until recently actually. Vaginas do weird things and sometimes you're just not going to be as wet as you'd like to be. Sorry to say it but it's true. A lot of time though, these things are mental. you may think you're turned on enough but you're feeling insecure about yourself or something like that and it will affect that. Also, condoms (especially non-lubricated!) will affect it. Just like when guys are insecure/nervous sometimes they can't stay hard. Quit worrying about it so much! Maybe try foreplay a little longer than usual. That's a biggie!