I was diagnosed with herpes two years ago, lately I have been experiencing changes in my sex life. I used to be able to finish quickly now I don't even get close, it's affecting my relationship because my fiancé doesn't think I'm enjoying it. I still get turned on by him and enjoy it just can't seem to get close. So my question is could the herpes be causing this?
Also sometimes after sex I get cramps in my pelvic area what could be causing that?