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2170204 tn?1337392201

i want to have sex but i back out!!! why???

sex is always on my mind 24/7 and i want to feel it i crave it at times but when its time for me to have sex i just back out and its driving me crazy...masturbation isnt enough for me
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As long as you always play it safe and use protection then you have no worries.You don't want to be contracting an STD at your age.Learn the modes of STD transmission and you will be fine.All the best.
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2170204 tn?1337392201
lol yeah that is very true lol but i dont think im gonna cahoon it with him anytime soon
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1828226 tn?1323565248
condoms are very protective if they are use correctly :) make sure he is using the right size. it's not cool if the magnum condom slips off, LOL!
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2170204 tn?1337392201
lol i understand very well about what ur saying and i will b kuz he tells me you have me whipped and i can see it in his eyes b kuz i know he gets so  annoyed when i tell him  to stop and back up when  i know we are both ready but im just scared of the outcome and maybe i shouldn't think so negative minded about the outcome after we have sex ya know b kuz i know im ready i feel ready and thanks for that i needed to here that :)
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2170204 tn?1337392201
yeah and to b very honest everything u said is what im always thinking about ya know??? and thank u i will very soon :)
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2170204 tn?1337392201
im 19 n yes they are at times i feel ready n i want it so badly but i keep backing out and when i say i had plenty of opportunity's i had plenty and i get very curious about how it feels. :)
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2170204 tn?1337392201
yes i really do and your so right but it gets so nerve recking sometimes ya know
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1828226 tn?1323565248
I read your other posts and basically you are too concerned with catching something during the sex act. AND THIS NORMAL!!!! When I was younger (in my 30's now), I thought the same way UNTIL I actually had sex or oral sex for the first time then all that worrying went out the window because it felt so damn good! LOL... Now, I still worry about that stuff but nothing like how I use to worry when I was a virgin. So just go with the flow and when the time is right for you to go to the next level you will.
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there must be something about the act of sex that youre worried about. pregnancy, embarrassment, trust. identify what it is and talk to your partner about it before having sex. hopefully that will make you more emotionally comfortable with him/her
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134578 tn?1693250592
How old are you?  Your hormones might just be going wild right now, up one moment and down another.
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80052 tn?1550343332
I'll bet you need a guy you really love, then you won't feel so uptight about it! :-)
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