There's a good chance that it's your birth control pill. I had a problem after I had my son two years ago, but come to find out, it was the pill. I stopped taking it last November and things are back to normal. I agree with you though about the lube thing...I hate using it. I don't care what kind you use or how expensive it is, it doesn't feel the same and you're a big sloppy mess afterwards.
You'll go back to normal when you go off of the pill one day...
"KY" girlfriend "KY" Hope it helps.
I'm affraid that your husband may not have a say in the matter. Some women just do not self lubricate the same as others would. That is the reason they came up with lubricants such as KY.
I have been experiencing the same problem for a few months now. It seems that even when I feel aroused and into having sex, I can't get naturally lubricated. I visited my doctor and she told me it is probably because of the birth control pill I am on.
She told me to take Soy Lecithin supplements - that they will aid is "lubing me up".
I started taking them a few days ago and haven't noticed any results yet.