I'm confused about the title of your post. Do you feel that he was violent with you? Because if that's the case then you should not be having sex with him and you should stay as far away as possible from him. If he is being violent with you while having sex, then that's why you're bleeding and you should not allow him near you again.
We did it again and I bleed again what could it be?
How is that violence lol you chose to have sex did you not?
Hi sounds as if your partner has been a bit rough with you , it will burn if you have a tear down there , but its normal you may like to put some Sudo Cream there , that will calm it down , For your first time i hope your partner wore a Condom , Please tell him to be a bit more gentle , give it a few days you should be ok , Take care ,