****not satisfied****

[jomari]

hi,                                                                                                                                                                            

      im a 30yr old women whose never experienced a orgasm when my boyfriend and i have sex i can never get to the point of an orgasm when were done im still so very horny and not satisfied my entire body is usually on fire and i feel like like i cant controll myself i want it so bad but even when we go for it a second time still the same thing its sort of like being extremely thirsty but no matter how much water i drink i can never quench my thirst, please tell me whats wrong with me is this normal???

[peggylynn]

Try and see if you can make you'r self have a orgasm. if it dose not help explore you'r self and you'r partner, put you'r mind,body and soal into it, dont think of anything! use a clit toy thay are like 10 dollors at a adult store, Maybe some KY jelly that get warm to touch, something has to help. girl i feel for you.... I hope ou find something to help you.

[jomari]

well, nor by vaginal, or by stimulation of the clitoris i've try'd it all from oils,whipcream, having my guy give me oral sex for hours i've never exprienced having an orgasm at all i've try'd relaxing playing with myself using vibrators, didos, all kinds of toys and still its never happend, i was thinking maybe i should try some type of medication to help me along.

[Musefiend]

Well first what kind of orgasm are you talking about a vaginal orgasm or one by stimulating your clit. If you are having trouble with a vaginal orgasm, don’t stress it so much, it can be very difficult for us ladies to have one that way.

But if you are talking about stimulating your clitoris and you never orgasm, perhaps you need to switch up technique. Try using a vibrator, if you’re not already or some stimulating gel. Also state of mind and how lubricated you are can affect how you’re doing.

I hope some of this helps.