First time Oral and Scared!

[piggly]

Im a 18 yr old girl and a virgin, last night I gave my bf oral sex, with a condom for the first time, he didnt finish either. He has only ever slept with 1 person in a long-term relationship before me but I'm so scared in case I've somehow got something. Im not having proper symptoms but my throats a lil tender. Ive heard such horror stories about oral though that now im seriously scared just in case i have something! Plz help!!

[Lola_mama]

You're FINE!! You're gonna give yourself an ulcer if you don't simmer down! Lol ; ) Yes, technically you CAN get herpes even w/ a condom, but it is HIGHLY UNLIKELY, and would only occur if you were licking, kissing, sucking, etc in exposed areas that aren't cover by the condom. If he really has slept w/ only one other person, than it is unlikely that you would even have anything to worry about at all, but maybe next time you should hold off on doing anything sexual until you know you can fully trust your partner. That way you won't have to put yourself through this kind of torture again. Relax, you're ok! ; )

[piggly]

Its been about 5 days now since I did what I did, haven't had any proper symptoms so far, but im still terrified. I'm real scared of herpes cos I read that it can still happen even when you use a condom, I don't wanna look up the symptoms as I have been abit of a hypochondriac in the past and seem to feel the symptoms as soon as I know about them.

I worry whenever I have a little itch or tickle near my mouth and keep checking inside my mouth and throat and am unsure whether I am noticing things that were probably there before or whether I am suffering the onset of an illness.

As far as I know my boyfriend doesn't have anything, I haven't asked him but I do trust him to have warned me if he had, but I am still worried! I can't sleep or do anything except sit and think it over and over in my head! I've been like this in the past and am usually proved wrong but still the thought of it is killing me >.< still so fricking scared! I do have anxiety disorder but have stopped taking meds, is this just me being a worry wort?!

[piggly]

Thanks everyone, my sore throats gone now, I have no idea whether I'm allergic to latex as I have never done anything sexual before the other night, but I prolly could be!

I'm still a lil scared and being a hypochondriac, waiting til I show symptoms of herpes or gonorrea or something but I have calmed down a bit more now, thanks very much guys c:
xxx

[jefelex]

You may have been having a slight allergic reaction to the latex.  Are you alergic to latex?  many people are and don't even know it! Just be careful - take it easy! :-)

[cutegirl20]

hi.. he was wearing a condom i guess and you gave him the oral while he was wearing it so no chances of getting any std's.. since you are freaked u are probably feeling all those symptoms.. tender throat and aching can also be due to inflammation of tonsils.. just relax and don't stress..... good luck..

[helpimdesperate446]

Listen, its very unlikely and almost impossible for you to have anything from giving your bf oral with a condom on. Condoms protect against that kind of thing such as bacteria and infections and I highly doubt he has any type of std or std causing bacteria if he only slept with one other person before you. If he did have any type of std it would show symptoms on him. Your sore throat sounds to me like your overwhelming yourself with this. Your throat should be fine just relax and dont worry about this because I highly doubt it is only in your head.