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panic attacks whentrying new things with my partner

i have been with my boyfriend for 6 years the last 3 long distance. we have been intimate in every way and being naked with each other is no big deal at all. since being long distance he has asked me to be intimate with him over skype. whenever i try this i have full on panic attacks. I cant masturbate in front of him. in person i cant do it ither. when we were not long distance it never came up but now that i have discovered  this im very afraid. how can i overcome this fear? why am i afraid of him seeing that?
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Everyone has their limits, their private comfort zone. If you are not comfortable breaching these limits then it is your personal right not to do so. I think you are going to have to explain this to your boyfriend. And in any case is Skype all that secure and private?
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When you are used to normal intercourse, you will hesitate doing masturbation in his presence.. I think it is normal. It can take time to get adjusted.
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