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penis not getting hard

Sir im 24 Yrs , i had oral sex many times, but during intercourse my penis not getting tight due to which im not able to do it. i m a smoker so it could be one of the reason. please give me some advice . how could i come out from this thing.
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It means  Erectile Dysfunction  or other words it is when you can not get an erection or hold erection to have vagina intercourse.. You go soft..  In your case if you can get an erection when you receive oral and then go soft,   that means you do not have full case of ED .. You are capable to get an erection , therefore it  could mean it is just in your mind  when it comes to vagina sex.  Try what I told you and see if that works for you....
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Whats this ED means?
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You should try to stop the smoking. Then you, start doing oral  and foreplay on your partner only and lay off you getting oral for some time.  That could give you the excitement you are needing  for having and keeping your erection.. You need to get your mind on pleasuring her and that should  enable you to have intercourse with a strong  erection .. Get your mind off of your erection issue..  If you are getting an erection with oral then you do not have ED  and quit worrying about the
food or meds you can take.. Concentrate on loving the female body and you will get back where you want to be.. my thoughts..
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Will take it but I guess it doesn't have ne other side effects. Other than medicine is der sumthing I can eat and get okay.
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139792 tn?1498585650
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Himalaya drug laboratories has product like Tentax forte. You may take this medicine from any chemist. The brand name is changed. you may ask any cemist about the new name.or just google tentax forte. YOu may get the details.
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Is der are some eatables which will also help me.. plz suggest
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If your girl friend is cooperative, keep your penis over her vagina (not in vagina) and do not do any thing. sit in this pose for 5 to 10 minutes. It it gets erected , do not do intercourse for few days. After a week or so, you would get erection and you would be able to do intercourse.
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I'd suggest starting off with oral sex to get an erection.  Once fully erect, start vaginal intercourse.  Before the act, have a protein shake.  
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nicotine ruins blood flow.  Erections are dependent on blood flow.  

Quit smoking.  I don't know why the packs don't say right on them they cause ED.  That's all men really care about.  
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You are getting use to the oral as the main way to reach orgasm.. It is giving your mind expectations that vagina sex is not doing for you.. Slow down on the oral and back off on masturbation and you should be fine.. The woman's vagina is man's biggest blessing!!!  Do not miss it!  my thoughts..
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